{"id":21948,"date":"2016-07-23T17:50:10","date_gmt":"2016-07-23T14:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19155"},"modified":"2026-04-16T16:06:44","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T16:06:44","slug":"bana-ne-yapacagimi-degil-ne-yaparsam-ne-olacagini-soyleyin-john-f-kennedy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bana-ne-yapacagimi-degil-ne-yaparsam-ne-olacagini-soyleyin-john-f-kennedy.html","title":{"rendered":"“Bana ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fil, ne yaparsam, ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyin.” John F. Kennedy"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bana ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fil, ne yaparsam, ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyin.” John F. Kennedy<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Karar vermek, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman birinin bize ne yapmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemesini beklemekle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Oysa John F Kennedy<\/span><\/span> bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle \u00e7ok daha olgun bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 i\u015faret eder: As\u0131l ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuz \u015fey talimatlar de\u011fil, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilir; ama o se\u00e7imin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayacak olan biziz.<\/strong> Bu y\u00fczden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bireyler, y\u00f6nlendirilmek yerine olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek ister. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 g\u00f6rebilen bir zihin, kendi karar\u0131n\u0131 daha bilin\u00e7li ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir \u015fekilde verebilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u00d6nemli bir karar vermeden \u00f6nce kendinize iki basit senaryo yaz\u0131n: \u201cBunu yaparsam ne olur?\u201d ve \u201cBunu yapmazsam ne olur?\u201d Karar netli\u011fi, se\u00e7enekleri de\u011fil; sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/strong> Bu egzersiz, sizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00f6nlendirmesine ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r ve kendi i\u00e7 rehberli\u011finizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. \u00dcstelik bu y\u00f6ntem, sadece do\u011fru karar\u0131 vermenizi de\u011fil; verdi\u011finiz karar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda daha sa\u011flam durman\u0131z\u0131 da sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

Hayatta s\u0131k\u00e7a kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir durumdur: Birine dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z ve ondan kesin bir y\u00f6n bekleriz. Ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en do\u011fru cevap, bize \u201c\u015funu yap\u201d demek de\u011fil; yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda neyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermektir. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, size \u201cgit\u201d ya da \u201ckal\u201d denmesi yerine, her iki se\u00e7imin getireceklerini g\u00f6rmek \u00e7ok daha de\u011ferlidir. Bizler de bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131yabiliriz. Kendi kararlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu almak, ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00f6n verdi\u011fi bir yolculuk de\u011fil; sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 bilerek se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ad\u0131mlar\u0131n toplam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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John F. Kennedy Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

John F. Kennedy (1917-1963) Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri\u2019nin 35. ba\u015fkan\u0131d\u0131r. Gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta ba\u015fkan se\u00e7ilmesiyle dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015f, So\u011fuk Sava\u015f d\u00f6neminde \u00f6nemli politik kararlar alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. K\u00fcba F\u00fcze Krizi\u2019ndeki liderli\u011fi ve uzay yar\u0131\u015f\u0131na verdi\u011fi destekle tan\u0131n\u0131r. 1963 y\u0131l\u0131nda u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 suikast sonucu hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f, karizmatik liderli\u011fiyle modern tarihin en etkili fig\u00fcrlerinden biri olarak an\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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