{"id":21943,"date":"2016-07-23T11:47:28","date_gmt":"2016-07-23T08:47:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19145"},"modified":"2026-02-14T23:01:35","modified_gmt":"2026-02-14T23:01:35","slug":"kalabalik-nereye-giderse-sen-aksi-yone-git-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kalabalik-nereye-giderse-sen-aksi-yone-git-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"“Kalabal\u0131k nereye giderse, sen aksi y\u00f6ne git.” Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Kalabal\u0131k nereye giderse, sen aksi y\u00f6ne git.” Charles Bukowski<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\r\n
\"Kalabal\u0131k<\/a><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Charles Bukowski\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, s\u00fcr\u00fc psikolojisine kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir duru\u015f \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Kalabal\u0131klar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fcven hissi verir; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011funluk yan\u0131l\u0131yor olamaz gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa tarih, b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmlerin kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 takip edenlerden de\u011fil, kendi yolunu \u00e7izenlerden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterir. Kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fc her zaman do\u011fruyu de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu g\u00f6sterir.<\/strong> Bukowski burada k\u00f6r\u00fc k\u00f6r\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 de\u011fil; bilin\u00e7li bir birey olmay\u0131 \u00f6nerir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu s\u00f6z, \u00f6zg\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenin ve cesur kararlar alman\u0131n \u00f6nemini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman konfor alan\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ve kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n uza\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\r\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: Bir karar a\u015famas\u0131nda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBunu ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011fim i\u00e7in mi yap\u0131yorum, yoksa herkes yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in mi?\u201d<\/strong> \u00d6zellikle kariyer, yat\u0131r\u0131m, e\u011fitim ya da sosyal medya trendleri gibi alanlarda bu soru hayat kurtar\u0131r. E\u011fer cevab\u0131n\u0131z \u201cHerkes b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yor\u201d ise bir ad\u0131m geri \u00e7ekilin. Alternatifleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir farkl\u0131l\u0131k bile sizi bamba\u015fka bir rotaya ta\u015f\u0131yabilir. Ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenin temelidir.<\/strong> Ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven, kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc susturabilme cesaretidir.<\/p>\r\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin herkes \u201cgaranti\u201d bir meslek yoluna y\u00f6nelirken siz yarat\u0131c\u0131 bir alanda ilerlemek istiyorsunuz. \u00c7evreniz riskli bulabilir. Ama i\u00e7inizde bir ses sizi ba\u015fka bir y\u00f6ne \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yorsa, onu bast\u0131rmak uzun vadede daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir huzursuzluk yarat\u0131r. Biz kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131 memnun etmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, kendi potansiyelimizi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Elbette her kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f do\u011fru de\u011fildir; \u00f6nemli olan bilin\u00e7li bir se\u00e7im yapmakt\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u015funu fark ederiz: Kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n pe\u015finden giden iz b\u0131rakamaz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\r\n

Charles Bukowski (1920-1994) Alman as\u0131ll\u0131 Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, romanc\u0131 ve k\u0131sa \u00f6yk\u00fc yazar\u0131d\u0131r. Eserlerinde toplumun kenar\u0131nda kalan karakterleri, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ba\u015fkald\u0131r\u0131y\u0131 ve hayat\u0131n sert ger\u00e7eklerini yal\u0131n bir dille i\u015flemi\u015ftir. Al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f edebi kal\u0131plara meydan okuyan \u00fcslubuyla \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve bireyselli\u011fin sembol isimlerinden biri h\u00e2line gelmi\u015ftir. Bukowski, s\u0131radan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen hayatlar\u0131n i\u00e7indeki derinli\u011fi ve ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 cesurca kaleme alarak edebiyat d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\r\n

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Self Confidence Quotations<\/a><\/blockquote>