{"id":20135,"date":"2016-09-05T11:08:33","date_gmt":"2016-09-05T08:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20135"},"modified":"2026-07-31T07:33:29","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T07:33:29","slug":"birinden-hicbir-sey-beklemeyince-asla-dus-kirikligina-ugramaz-insan-sylvia-plath","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birinden-hicbir-sey-beklemeyince-asla-dus-kirikligina-ugramaz-insan-sylvia-plath.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen you expect nothing from someone, you are never disappointed.\u201d Sylvia Plath"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen you expect nothing from someone, you are never disappointed.\u201d Sylvia Plath<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerindeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir k\u0131sm\u0131, ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyen beklentilerden do\u011far. Sylvia Plath<\/strong>‘\u0131n \u201cBirinden hi\u00e7bir \u015fey beklemeyince, asla d\u00fc\u015f k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011framaz insan.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fumuzu ve huzurumuzu b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na ba\u011flamamam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Elbette g\u00fcvenmek, sevmek ve destek beklemek insan olman\u0131n do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n direksiyonunu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kararlar\u0131na teslim etti\u011fimizde, duygusal dengemizi de onlar\u0131n ellerine b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f oluruz.<\/strong> Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler beklentisizlik \u00fczerine de\u011fil; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f, a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i beklentiler \u00fczerine kurulur. Bu nedenle as\u0131l \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, mutlulu\u011fumuzun temel kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendi i\u00e7imizde bulabilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in kendinize \u015fu soruyu sormay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirin: “Bu konuda ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan bekledi\u011fim \u015feyi \u00f6nce ben kendim yapabilir miyim?”<\/strong> Takdir bekliyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce kendi eme\u011finizi takdir edin. S\u00fcrekli ilgi bekliyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce kendinize kaliteli zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n. Birinden sizi motive etmesini bekliyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce kendi hedeflerinizi ve nedenlerinizi hat\u0131rlay\u0131n. Kendi i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc geli\u015ftirdik\u00e7e, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ruh h\u00e2linizi daha az belirlemeye ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc unutmas\u0131 sizi \u00fczebilir. Ancak t\u00fcm de\u011ferinizi bu davran\u0131\u015fa ba\u011flamak yerine, onun hayat\u0131ndaki yo\u011funlu\u011fu da hesaba katabilir ve ili\u015fkinizi tek bir olaya g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmeyebilirsiniz. B\u00f6yle bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 hem gereksiz k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 azalt\u0131r hem de ili\u015fkileri daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 h\u00e2le getirir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan daha az \u015fey bekledik\u00e7e, onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck iyilikler daha b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek huzur, beklentilerimizin de\u011fil, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n eseridir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Sylvia Plath Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Sylvia Plath (1932-1963) Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, romanc\u0131 ve k\u0131sa \u00f6yk\u00fc yazar\u0131d\u0131r. 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili edebiyat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilen Plath, \u00f6zellikle i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyay\u0131, insan psikolojisini ve varolu\u015fsal sorgulamalar\u0131 derin bir anlat\u0131mla ele alan eserleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. Yar\u0131 otobiyografik roman\u0131 “S\u0131r\u00e7a Fanus (The Bell Jar)” ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra Pulitzer \u015eiir \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc’ne lay\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u015fiirleri, d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir yer edinmi\u015ftir. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve duygusal derinli\u011fiyle Sylvia Plath, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de modern edebiyat\u0131n en \u00e7ok okunan ve \u00fczerine en fazla ara\u015ft\u0131rma yap\u0131lan yazarlar\u0131ndan biri olmay\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n