{"id":20093,"date":"2016-09-03T10:46:13","date_gmt":"2016-09-03T07:46:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20093"},"modified":"2026-08-23T11:19:05","modified_gmt":"2026-08-23T11:19:05","slug":"dunyada-en-buyuk-sey-insanin-kendisinin-ne-oldugunu-bilmesidir-montaigne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dunyada-en-buyuk-sey-insanin-kendisinin-ne-oldugunu-bilmesidir-montaigne.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe greatest thing in the world is to know what one is oneself.\u201d Montaigne"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe greatest thing in the world is to know what one is oneself.\u201d Montaigne<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"\u0130nsanlara<\/a><\/p>\n

Montaigne\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n hayat boyunca ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilece\u011fi en de\u011ferli ke\u015ffin kendisini tan\u0131mak<\/strong> oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131r. Ne istedi\u011fimizi, nelerden korktu\u011fumuzu, hangi de\u011ferlere \u00f6nem verdi\u011fimizi, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve zay\u0131f y\u00f6nlerimizi bilmek; ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine g\u00f6re de\u011fil, kendi ger\u00e7ekli\u011fimize g\u00f6re bir ya\u015fam kurmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Kendini tan\u0131mayan insan, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131 kendi do\u011frular\u0131 zanneder ve fark\u0131nda olmadan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famaya ba\u015flayabilir. Oysa \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong>, yaln\u0131zca g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nlerimizi ke\u015ffetmek de\u011fil, eksiklerimizi ve \u00e7eli\u015fkilerimizi de d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e g\u00f6rebilmektir. Kendimizi oldu\u011fumuz gibi tan\u0131maya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, hem se\u00e7imlerimiz hem ili\u015fkilerimiz hem de ya\u015fam hedeflerimiz daha anlaml\u0131 bir h\u00e2le gelir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn kendinize yaln\u0131zca be\u015f dakika ay\u0131r\u0131n ve \u201cBug\u00fcn kendimle ilgili ne fark ettim?\u201d sorusunu cevaplay\u0131n.<\/strong> G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi neyin mutlu etti\u011fini, hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n sizi \u00f6fkelendirdi\u011fini, hangi konuda zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 veya hangi anda kendinizi ger\u00e7ekten iyi hissetti\u011finizi k\u0131sa notlarla yazabilirsiniz. Zamanla bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck notlar, kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmenizi sa\u011flayan ki\u015fisel bir aynaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Kendimizi g\u00f6zlemledik\u00e7e otomatik tepkilerimizin arkas\u0131ndaki nedenleri fark eder, se\u00e7imlerimiz \u00fczerinde daha fazla s\u00f6z sahibi oluruz.<\/strong> Kendini bilmek bir anda ula\u015f\u0131lan bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil, \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclen bir ke\u015fif yolculu\u011fudur.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir insan s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n onay\u0131n\u0131 arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011finde, asl\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmaktan \u00e7ok ele\u015ftirilmekten korktu\u011funu ke\u015ffedebilir. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 ise s\u00fcrekli erteledi\u011fi hedeflerinin tembel oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olma ihtimaliyle y\u00fczle\u015fmek istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ertelendi\u011fini anlayabilir. Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar, insan\u0131n kendisiyle kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkiyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendimizi tan\u0131mak, yaln\u0131zca kim oldu\u011fumuzu \u00f6\u011frenmek de\u011fil; neden b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlayarak kim olmak istedi\u011fimize karar verebilmektir.<\/strong> Kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a, hayat\u0131n bize bi\u00e7ti\u011fi rolleri sorgulamaya ve ger\u00e7ekten bize ait olan bir ya\u015fam\u0131 kurmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z; belki de insan\u0131n kendisine verebilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, \u00f6nce kendini bilmektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Montaigne Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592) Frans\u0131z filozof, yazar ve deneme t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr. 28 \u015eubat 1533’te Bordeaux yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndaki Montaigne \u015eatosu’nda do\u011fan Montaigne, \u00f6zellikle kendini tan\u0131ma, insan do\u011fas\u0131, ku\u015fku, ahlak ve ya\u015fam \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. En \u00f6nemli eseri Denemeler<\/em> (Essais<\/em>), yazar\u0131n kendi deneyimlerinden ve g\u00f6zlemlerinden yola \u00e7\u0131karak insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7eli\u015fkilerini sorgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 eserlerden olu\u015fur. Montaigne, kesin yarg\u0131lardan uzak duran ve insan\u0131n kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini s\u00fcrekli sorgulamas\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fvik eden yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla modern deneme edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n temellerini atm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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