{"id":20023,"date":"2016-08-31T15:12:52","date_gmt":"2016-08-31T12:12:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=20023"},"modified":"2026-09-13T12:27:39","modified_gmt":"2026-09-13T12:27:39","slug":"bahane-kil-gibidir-herkeste-bulunur-ama-care-akil-gibidir-az-kiside-bulunur-lao-tzu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bahane-kil-gibidir-herkeste-bulunur-ama-care-akil-gibidir-az-kiside-bulunur-lao-tzu.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cExcuses are like a hair, they are found in everyone; But the remedy is like the mind, it is found in few people.\u201d Lao Tzu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cExcuses are like a hair, they are found in everyone; But the remedy is like the mind, it is found in few people.\u201d Lao Tzu<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Lao Tzu\u2019nun bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlardan \u00e7ok, sorunlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve nas\u0131l hareket etti\u011finin<\/strong> \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131yor. Bahane bulmak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kolayd\u0131r; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn arkas\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nabilece\u011fimiz bir neden bulabiliriz. Zaman\u0131m\u0131z yoktur, \u015fartlar uygun de\u011fildir, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 bizi desteklememi\u015ftir, imk\u00e2nlar\u0131m\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026 Oysa ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar\u0131n i\u00e7inde baz\u0131 insanlar bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu aramaya devam eder. Lao Tzu\u2019nun \u201cBahane k\u0131l gibidir, herkeste bulunur; ama \u00e7are ak\u0131l gibidir, az ki\u015fide bulunur.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc tam da bu fark\u0131 ortaya koyar. Bahane bizi oldu\u011fumuz yerde tutar, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 ise hareket ettirir.<\/strong> Ak\u0131l burada yaln\u0131zca zek\u00e2 anlam\u0131na gelmez; ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi kabul edebilmek, se\u00e7enekleri g\u00f6rebilmek ve elimizdeki imk\u00e2nlarla bir yol olu\u015fturabilmek anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131yabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir sorunla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize \u201cNeden olmad\u0131?\u201d sorusundan \u00f6nce \u201c\u015eimdi ne yapabilirim?\u201d sorusunu sorun.<\/strong> Elbette ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerin nedenlerini anlamak \u00f6nemlidir; fakat yaln\u0131zca nedenleri s\u0131ralamak bizi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez. Bir i\u015f istedi\u011fimiz gibi gitmediyse, bir hedefimize ula\u015famad\u0131ysak ya da bir ili\u015fkide sorun ya\u015fad\u0131ysak, \u00f6nce durumu oldu\u011fu gibi kabul edip ard\u0131ndan elimizdeki se\u00e7eneklerden birini belirleyelim. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi, kontrol edemedi\u011fimiz ko\u015fullardan kontrol edebildi\u011fimiz davran\u0131\u015flara ge\u00e7memizi sa\u011flar.<\/strong> Bazen elimizde yaln\u0131zca k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m vard\u0131r; fakat o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131m bile bahanenin bizi durdurdu\u011fu yerden \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in yeterlidir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir insan\u0131n uzun zamand\u0131r yeni bir i\u015fe ge\u00e7mek istedi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. \u201cEkonomik \u015fartlar k\u00f6t\u00fc, piyasada i\u015f yok, benim deneyimim yeterli de\u011fil.\u201d diyerek neden yapamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131ralayabilir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar ger\u00e7ek sorunlar olabilir; fakat ayn\u0131 insan \u201cPeki bu ko\u015fullar i\u00e7inde ne yapabilirim?\u201d diye sordu\u011funda yeni bir e\u011fitim almak, \u00e7evresini geni\u015fletmek, \u00f6zge\u00e7mi\u015fini geli\u015ftirmek veya daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir f\u0131rsatla ba\u015flamak gibi se\u00e7enekler g\u00f6rebilir. Ko\u015fullar bir anda de\u011fi\u015fmemi\u015ftir; de\u011fi\u015fen \u015fey ko\u015fullara verdi\u011fi zihinsel tepkidir.<\/strong> Because you are only as real as you can express yourself. <\/em>hayatta her zaman istedi\u011fimiz \u015fartlara sahip olmayabiliriz; fakat \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sahip oldu\u011fumuz \u015fartlar i\u00e7inde ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za karar verme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahibiz.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Lao Tzu Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Lao Tzu Kimdir? Lao Tzu (M\u00d6 6. y\u00fczy\u0131l) Antik \u00c7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc ve \u00c7in felsefesinin en \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biridir. Geleneksel \u00c7in kaynaklar\u0131nda Lao Tzu\u2019nun Taoizm\u2019in kurucu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fc ve Tao Te Ching<\/em> adl\u0131 eserin yazar\u0131 oldu\u011fu kabul edilir. Ya\u015fam\u0131 hakk\u0131nda kesin tarihsel bilgiler olduk\u00e7a s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r ve do\u011fum ile \u00f6l\u00fcm tarihleri konusunda farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler bulunmaktad\u0131r. \u00d6\u011fretilerinin merkezinde Tao, do\u011fayla uyum, sadelik, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fck, i\u00e7sel denge ve zorlamadan hareket etme gibi kavramlar yer al\u0131r. Lao Tzu\u2019nun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri yaln\u0131zca \u00c7in felsefesini de\u011fil, y\u00fczy\u0131llar boyunca Do\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini ve insan\u0131n ya\u015famla ili\u015fkisini ele alan pek \u00e7ok yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 da etkilemi\u015ftir. Onun ad\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 zorla de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine kendi bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imini d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmesi fikriyle birlikte an\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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