{"id":19989,"date":"2016-08-11T09:10:06","date_gmt":"2016-08-11T09:10:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=19989"},"modified":"2026-02-15T12:18:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-15T12:18:41","slug":"eger-dusundugumuz-bildigimizden-cok-daha-az-bildigimiz-sevdigimizden-cok-daha-az-sevdigimiz-var-olandan-cok-daha-az-ise-boylece-kendimiz-gercekte-oldugumuzdan-daha-aziz-leo-buscaglia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/eger-dusundugumuz-bildigimizden-cok-daha-az-bildigimiz-sevdigimizden-cok-daha-az-sevdigimiz-var-olandan-cok-daha-az-ise-boylece-kendimiz-gercekte-oldugumuzdan-daha-aziz-leo-buscaglia.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf what we think is much less than we know, what we know is much less than what we love, what we love is much less than what exists, so we ourselves are less than we really are.\u201d Leo Buscaglia"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf what we think is much less than we know, what we know is much less than what we love, what we love is much less than what exists, so we ourselves are less than we really are.\u201d Leo Buscaglia<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Bilgi<\/a><\/p>\n

Leo Buscaglia bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle insan\u0131n potansiyeline dair \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir zincir kurar ve insan\u0131n potansiyelini daraltma bi\u00e7imine dikkat \u00e7eker. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimiz s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131ysa bilgimiz s\u0131n\u0131rlan\u0131r; bilgimiz sevgiden yoksunsa derinle\u015fmez; sevgimiz var olan\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 kapsamazsa da kimli\u011fimiz eksik kal\u0131r. Yani mesele sadece bilmek de\u011fil, bilginin sevgiyle geni\u015flemesidir. Sevgi, insan\u0131n kapasitesini b\u00fcy\u00fcten bir bilin\u00e7 h\u00e2lidir.<\/strong> Buscaglia\u2019ya g\u00f6re kendimizi oldu\u011fumuzdan daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015famam\u0131z\u0131n nedeni; korkular\u0131m\u0131z, \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z ve sevgiyi dar tutma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu s\u00f6z, zihinsel ve duygusal geni\u015fleme \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r: Daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, daha \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011frenmek, daha \u00e7ok sevmek.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: Her g\u00fcn bilin\u00e7li bir \u201cgeni\u015fleme ad\u0131m\u0131\u201d at\u0131n. Bu bir kitapta yeni bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek, farkl\u0131 bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc dinlemek ya da uzun s\u00fcredir mesafeli oldu\u011funuz birine empatiyle yakla\u015fmak olabilir. Kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemi ve sevgimi bir ad\u0131m nas\u0131l geni\u015fletebilirim?\u201d<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama istikrarl\u0131 geni\u015flemeler, kimli\u011fimizi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan bildi\u011fi kadar de\u011fil, sevdi\u011fi kadar derinle\u015fir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir konuda kesin yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z var. O alanda farkl\u0131 bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fe sahip biriyle sakin bir sohbet etti\u011finizde, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z esneyebilir. Ya da uzun zamand\u0131r k\u0131rg\u0131n oldu\u011funuz birine anlay\u0131\u015fla yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, i\u00e7inizdeki y\u00fck hafifler. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek g\u00fcvende kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Oysa b\u00fcy\u00fcmek, biraz risk almay\u0131 ve kalbi a\u00e7may\u0131 gerektirir. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u015funu fark ederiz: Kendimizi ne kadar geni\u015fletirsek, ger\u00e7ekte oldu\u011fumuz o zengin varl\u0131\u011fa o kadar yakla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Leo Buscaglia Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Leo Buscaglia (1924-1998) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, akademisyen ve motivasyon konu\u015fmac\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. \u201cSevgi Profes\u00f6r\u00fc\u201d olarak an\u0131lan Buscaglia, \u00f6zellikle sevgi, insan ili\u015fkileri ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u00dcniversitede verdi\u011fi dersler ve yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitaplarla milyonlarca insana ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f, insan\u0131n duygusal kapasitesini ve sevgi temelli ya\u015fam anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Onun yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, bireyin potansiyelini ancak sevgi ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131kla tam anlam\u0131yla ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilece\u011fini savunur.<\/p>\n

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