{"id":19908,"date":"2016-08-24T17:35:32","date_gmt":"2016-08-24T14:35:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19908"},"modified":"2026-07-21T22:15:16","modified_gmt":"2026-07-21T22:15:16","slug":"canimi-yakanlardan-intikam-almayi-dusunmedim-hic-hayat-benden-daha-yaratici-simone-de-beauvoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/canimi-yakanlardan-intikam-almayi-dusunmedim-hic-hayat-benden-daha-yaratici-simone-de-beauvoir.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI never thought of taking revenge on those who hurt me, life is more creative than me.\u201d Simone de Beauvoir"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Can\u0131m\u0131 yakanlardan intikam almay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedim hi\u00e7, hayat benden daha yarat\u0131c\u0131.” Simone de Beauvoir<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Simone de Beauvoir bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, intikam duygusunun insan\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirmek yerine ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bize haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapan insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6fke beslemek ilk anda do\u011fal g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, bu \u00f6fkeyi s\u00fcrekli ta\u015f\u0131mak en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar\u0131 yine bize verir. Hayat ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insanlar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131 se\u00e7imlerin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kendilerine farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde g\u00f6sterir. Bu nedenle ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, intikam pe\u015finde ko\u015fmakta de\u011fil; ya\u015fanan ac\u0131y\u0131 geride b\u0131rak\u0131p kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 yeniden in\u015fa edebilmektedir.<\/strong> Ge\u00e7mi\u015fe saplanmak yerine gelece\u011fe y\u00f6nelmek, insan\u0131n kendisine verebilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6d\u00fcllerden biridir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za uygulamak i\u00e7in sizi inciten bir olay\u0131 tekrar tekrar zihninizde canland\u0131rmak yerine, o deneyimden \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finiz tek bir dersi bir k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da yaz\u0131n. Ard\u0131ndan kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: “Bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m olay beni nas\u0131l daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve daha bilin\u00e7li biri h\u00e2line getirebilir?”<\/strong> B\u00f6ylece dikkatiniz, sizi yaralayan ki\u015fiden uzakla\u015f\u0131p kendi geli\u015fiminize y\u00f6nelir. \u0130yile\u015fmenin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131, enerjimizi intikama de\u011fil, kendimizi geli\u015ftirmeye harcamakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bazen y\u0131llar sonra geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bizi en \u00e7ok \u00fczen olaylar\u0131n asl\u0131nda daha do\u011fru insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131za, daha sa\u011flam kararlar almam\u0131za ya da kendimizi yeniden ke\u015ffetmemize vesile oldu\u011funu fark ederiz. Hayat, her deneyimi kendi i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahiptir. Ger\u00e7ek zafer, sizi inciten insan\u0131n kaybetmesi de\u011fil; sizin ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za ra\u011fmen huzurunuzu, karakterinizi ve umudunuzu koruyabilmenizdir.<\/em><\/strong> Simone de Beauvoir’\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131mak yerine gelece\u011fin imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n\u0131 kucaklaman\u0131n insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ek anlamda \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirdi\u011fini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Simone de Beauvoir Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Simone de Beauvoir (1908-1986) Frans\u0131z filozof, yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Varolu\u015f\u00e7uluk ak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nde gelen isimlerinden biri olan Beauvoir, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, bireysel sorumluluk ve insan\u0131n kendi ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 anlamland\u0131rma \u00e7abas\u0131 \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirlerle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En \u00f6nemli eserlerinden biri olan \u0130kinci Cins (Le Deuxi\u00e8me Sexe), modern d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarihinin en etkili kitaplar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilir. Edebiyat\u0131 ve felsefeyi bir araya getiren eserleriyle bireyin kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesi ve ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imlerle \u015fekillendirmesi konusunda derin izler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n