{"id":19843,"date":"2016-06-01T12:14:27","date_gmt":"2016-06-01T09:14:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=18586"},"modified":"2026-01-20T15:05:36","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T15:05:36","slug":"ey-hayat-gulumseyerek-bakiyorsak-sana-bil-ki-zafer-bizimdir-farid-farjad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ey-hayat-gulumseyerek-bakiyorsak-sana-bil-ki-zafer-bizimdir-farid-farjad.html","title":{"rendered":"“Ey hayat, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek bak\u0131yorsak sana, bil ki zafer bizimdir.” Farid Farjad"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ey hayat, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek bak\u0131yorsak sana, bil ki zafer bizimdir.” Farid Farjad<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\""Nas\u0131l<\/a><\/p>\n

Farid Farjad\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, zafer kavram\u0131n\u0131 sonu\u00e7lardan al\u0131p tutuma ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131r. Hayat her zaman adil, kolay ya da p\u00fcr\u00fczs\u00fcz de\u011fildir; ama insan\u0131n ona nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 belirler. Bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: G\u00fcl\u00fcmsemek, ink\u00e2r etmek de\u011fil; direnebilmektir.<\/strong> Zorluklara ra\u011fmen i\u00e7sel duru\u015funu koruyabilen biri i\u00e7in hayat art\u0131k sadece olan bitenlerden ibaret de\u011fildir. Farjad\u2019\u0131n vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zafer, madalyalarla de\u011fil; ruhun ayakta kalabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcyle<\/strong> \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ama etkili bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cTepki se\u00e7me molas\u0131\u201d verin.<\/strong> G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde can\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u0131kan bir durum ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, hemen tepki vermek yerine kendinize on saniye tan\u0131y\u0131n ve \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu ana nas\u0131l bakmak istiyorum?\u201d G\u00fcl\u00fcmsemek bazen bilin\u00e7li bir tercihtir. Biz \u015funu deneyimledik: \u0130nsan tepkisini se\u00e7ti\u011fi anda, olay\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc azal\u0131r. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde, hayat\u0131n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck mola, i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn: Ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullarda ya\u015fayan iki insan vard\u0131r. Biri hayata \u00f6fkeyle bakar, di\u011feri anlam arar. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 benzer olsa da hissettikleri bamba\u015fkad\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu fark, ger\u00e7ek zaferin nerede sakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterir. Farid Farjad\u2019\u0131n dedi\u011fi gibi, hayata g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek bakabiliyorsak; ko\u015fullar de\u011fil, biz kazanm\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong> Ger\u00e7ek motivasyon, hayat\u0131n bize ne sundu\u011funda de\u011fil; biz ona hangi y\u00fczle bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda gizlidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n