{"id":19769,"date":"2016-05-03T11:20:06","date_gmt":"2016-05-03T08:20:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=18044"},"modified":"2026-03-18T16:35:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-18T16:35:35","slug":"kendini-bir-delikte-bulursan-kazmayi-birak-will-rogers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kendini-bir-delikte-bulursan-kazmayi-birak-will-rogers.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you find yourself in a hole, stop digging!\u201d Will Rogers"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you find yourself in a hole, stop digging!\u201d Will Rogers<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\""Kendini<\/a><\/p>\n

Will Rogers<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan s\u00f6ylenen \u201cKendini bir delikte bulursan, kazmay\u0131 b\u0131rak!\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken fark\u0131nda olmadan onlar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctme e\u011filimini \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir metaforla anlat\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f bir karar\u0131n, zararl\u0131 bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ya da i\u015fe yaramayan bir y\u00f6ntemin i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuzu fark etsek bile ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geri ad\u0131m atmak bize ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Oysa Will Rogers\u2019\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Bizi zor durumda b\u0131rakan \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman problem de\u011fil, problemi \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/strong> Bazen ilerlemek i\u00e7in daha fazla \u00e7abalamak de\u011fil, durmak gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, de\u011fi\u015fimin ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk noktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cDur\u2013De\u011ferlendir\u2013Y\u00f6n De\u011fi\u015ftir\u201d kural\u0131n\u0131 kullanmak. Kendinizi s\u00fcrekli tekrar eden bir stres, tart\u0131\u015fma ya da ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcnde buldu\u011funuzda hemen \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine k\u0131sa bir mola verin ve \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBen ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm m\u00fc \u00fcretiyorum, yoksa ayn\u0131 hatay\u0131 farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde mi tekrarl\u0131yorum?\u201d<\/em> Ard\u0131ndan yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7 son hamleyi yaz\u0131n ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin. E\u011fer sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmiyorsa, y\u00f6ntem de\u011fi\u015fmelidir. Ayn\u0131 kazmay\u0131 daha h\u0131zl\u0131 sallamak sizi y\u00fczeye de\u011fil, daha derine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin s\u00fcrekli fazla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen t\u00fckenmi\u015f hisseden bir ki\u015fi, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc daha \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakta arayabilir. Ancak bu, deli\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fctmekten ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe yaramaz. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma saatlerini art\u0131rmak yerine dinlenme d\u00fczenini de\u011fi\u015ftirmek, s\u0131n\u0131r koymak veya \u00f6ncelikleri yeniden belirlemek ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir. Hayatta bazen cesaret, devam etmekte de\u011fil; yanl\u0131\u015f yolda oldu\u011fumuzu kabul edip y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftirmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek ilerleme, her zaman daha fazla \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermek de\u011fil; bazen durup kazmay\u0131 b\u0131rakacak kadar bilin\u00e7li olabilmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Will Rogers Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Will Rogers (1879\u20131935) Amerikal\u0131 mizah\u00e7\u0131, oyuncu, yazar ve sosyal yorumcudur. \u00d6zellikle keskin g\u00f6zlem g\u00fcc\u00fc ve sade mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla tan\u0131nan Rogers, gazetelerde yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6\u015fe yaz\u0131lar\u0131 ve radyo konu\u015fmalar\u0131yla geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 esprili ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bir dille ele alarak Amerikan k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde \u00f6nemli bir yer edinmi\u015f, insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na dair pratik ve zamans\u0131z s\u00f6zleriyle haf\u0131zalarda kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Quotes About Thinking Differently<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n