{"id":19684,"date":"2016-04-01T13:17:53","date_gmt":"2016-04-01T10:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=17683"},"modified":"2026-01-22T14:27:52","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T14:27:52","slug":"eger-basarili-olmak-istiyorsan-bir-kurala-uymak-zorundasin-asla-kendine-yalan-soyleme-paulo-coelho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/eger-basarili-olmak-istiyorsan-bir-kurala-uymak-zorundasin-asla-kendine-yalan-soyleme-paulo-coelho.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you want to be successful, you have to follow one rule: Never lie to yourself!\u201d Paulo Coelho"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you want to be successful, you have to follow one rule: Never lie to yourself!\u201d Paulo Coelho<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Paulo Coelho\u2019nun bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyadaki ko\u015fullardan \u00e7ok i\u00e7sel d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle<\/strong> ilgili oldu\u011funu g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir bi\u00e7imde hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, kendini kand\u0131rarak yolunu kaybeder. Yapmak istemedi\u011fi \u015feyleri istiyormu\u015f gibi g\u00f6stermek, haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hedeflere haz\u0131rm\u0131\u015f gibi davranmak ya da korkular\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek, ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 geciktiren g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez engellerdir. Kendine yalan s\u00f6ylemek<\/strong>, ger\u00e7e\u011fi de\u011fil, konforu se\u00e7mektir; oysa ger\u00e7ek ilerleme, rahats\u0131z edici de olsa hakikatle y\u00fczle\u015fmeyi gerektirir. Paulo Coelho bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n cesur bir i\u00e7sel netlik oldu\u011funu vurgular.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kendinize haftada bir kez d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck molas\u0131 verin.<\/strong> Sessiz bir an yarat\u0131n ve \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201c\u015eu an ger\u00e7ekten ne istiyorum ve neyi ertelemek i\u00e7in kendime bahaneler \u00fcretiyorum?\u201d Bu soruya verece\u011finiz yan\u0131tlar\u0131 s\u00fcslemeyin, yumu\u015fatmay\u0131n. Bizler kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k olursak, kararlar\u0131m\u0131z da o kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i hale gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc motivasyon, kendini kand\u0131rmaktan de\u011fil, kendini tan\u0131maktan<\/strong> beslenir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015fte mutsuz olan ama \u201c\u015fimdilik idare ediyorum\u201d diyerek y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 erteleyen biri, en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131na de\u011fil, kendine verir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde bir hedefe ger\u00e7ekten haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi halde haz\u0131rm\u0131\u015f gibi davranmak da i\u00e7sel bir \u00e7eli\u015fki yarat\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte tam bu noktada Paulo Coelho\u2019nun mesaj\u0131 netle\u015fir: Ba\u015far\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na anlat\u0131lan hik\u00e2yelerle de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendine kar\u015f\u0131 kurdu\u011fu d\u00fcr\u00fcst ili\u015fkiyle gelir. Kendine yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, yol da netle\u015fir, g\u00fc\u00e7 de artar.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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