{"id":19634,"date":"2016-03-17T12:40:42","date_gmt":"2016-03-17T10:40:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=17464"},"modified":"2026-03-16T14:16:57","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T14:16:57","slug":"hayatimi-sadece-ben-degistirebilirim-bir-baskasi-bunu-benim-icin-yapamaz-carol-burnett","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatimi-sadece-ben-degistirebilirim-bir-baskasi-bunu-benim-icin-yapamaz-carol-burnett.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOnly I can change my life. No one else can do that for me.\u201d Carol Burnett"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cOnly I can change my life. No one else can do that for me.\u201d Carol Burnett<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"Mutluluk<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131 sadece ben de\u011fi\u015ftirebilirim. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 bunu benim i\u00e7in yapamaz.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00fcnl\u00fc oyuncu ve yazar Carol Burnett<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ya\u015fam ger\u00e7e\u011fini ifade eder. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel sorumluluk ve bireysel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm kavram\u0131nda sakl\u0131d\u0131r. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z memnuniyetsizliklerin \u00e7o\u011funda d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar\u0131, insanlar\u0131 ya da \u015fans\u0131 su\u00e7lama e\u011filiminde oluruz. Oysa ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyadan de\u011fil i\u00e7sel kararlar\u0131m\u0131zdan ba\u015flar. Kimse bizim yerimize cesaret edemez, karar veremez ya da ad\u0131m atamaz.<\/strong> Destek alabiliriz, ilham bulabiliriz, rehberlik g\u00f6rebiliriz; fakat y\u00f6n\u00fc belirleyen her zaman biz oluruz. Carol Burnett\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyonun temel ta\u015flar\u0131ndan biri olan \u015fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat\u0131n direksiyonunda zaten biz oturuyoruz; sadece bazen bunu unuturuz.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden hareketle g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cSorumluluk C\u00fcmlesi Tekni\u011fi.\u201d<\/strong> G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir durum ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, zihninizde kurdu\u011funuz c\u00fcmleyi bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde de\u011fi\u015ftirin. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u201c\u0130\u015fim y\u00fcz\u00fcnden mutsuzum\u201d demek yerine \u201c\u0130\u015fimle ilgili bir de\u011fi\u015fiklik yapmaya hen\u00fcz karar vermedim\u201d \u015feklinde yeniden ifade edin. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dil de\u011fi\u015fimi, su\u00e7lamay\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan al\u0131p kontrol\u00fc tekrar size verir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ise davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u015fekillendirir. Sorumlulu\u011fu kabul etmek su\u00e7luluk de\u011fil, g\u00fc\u00e7 kazanmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu egzersizi birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda fark edeceksiniz ki \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yollar\u0131 zihninizde daha g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr hale gelir.<\/p>\n

Hayattan basit bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan memnun olmayan biri s\u00fcrekli zaman yetersizli\u011finden \u015fik\u00e2yet edebilir. Ancak y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kma karar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zca kendisi verebilir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ili\u015fkiler, kariyer veya ki\u015fisel mutluluk da ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcdahalesiyle de\u011fil, bireyin ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama kararl\u0131 ad\u0131mlarla de\u011fi\u015fir. Carol Burnett\u2019in mesaj\u0131 burada netle\u015fir: De\u011fi\u015fim bir anda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen b\u00fcy\u00fck bir olay de\u011fil, ki\u015finin kendi sorumlulu\u011funu kabul etti\u011fi anda ba\u015flayan bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bize sundu\u011fu f\u0131rsatlar de\u011fil, o f\u0131rsatlara kar\u015f\u0131 verdi\u011fimiz bilin\u00e7li kararlard\u0131r ve ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm tam olarak burada ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Carol Burnett Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u00a0Carol Burnett (1933-) Amerikal\u0131 oyuncu, komedyen, yazar ve televizyon programc\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle uzun y\u0131llar yay\u0131nlanan The Carol Burnett Show<\/em> ile televizyon tarihinin en etkili komedi fig\u00fcrlerinden biri haline gelmi\u015ftir. Mizah\u0131 insan deneyimiyle birle\u015ftiren anlat\u0131m\u0131 sayesinde geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ya\u015fam \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 samimi yorumlarla da tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Emmy ve Alt\u0131n K\u00fcre \u00f6d\u00fclleri ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere bir\u00e7ok prestijli \u00f6d\u00fcl kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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