{"id":19562,"date":"2016-08-10T21:58:26","date_gmt":"2016-08-10T18:58:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=19562"},"modified":"2026-06-29T11:04:18","modified_gmt":"2026-06-29T11:04:18","slug":"paylasacak-dostlariniz-yoksa-iyi-seylere-sahip-olmanin-da-bir-anlami-yoktur-seneca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/paylasacak-dostlariniz-yoksa-iyi-seylere-sahip-olmanin-da-bir-anlami-yoktur-seneca.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere's no point in having good things if you don't have friends to share with.\u201d Seneca"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThere's no point in having good things if you don't have friends to share with.\u201d Seneca<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\""Yan\u0131n\u0131zda<\/a><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek zenginli\u011fi yaln\u0131zca sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zla de\u011fil, onlar\u0131 kiminle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Seneca<\/strong>, bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle mutlulu\u011fun tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda eksik kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. En g\u00fczel manzaralar, en b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131lar, en de\u011ferli an\u0131lar ve hatta en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sevin\u00e7ler bile payla\u015f\u0131lacak dostlar oldu\u011funda ger\u00e7ek anlam\u0131n\u0131 bulur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, do\u011fas\u0131 gere\u011fi ba\u011f kurmaya ihtiya\u00e7 duyan sosyal bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r. Payla\u015f\u0131lmayan mutluluk zamanla s\u0131radanla\u015f\u0131r; payla\u015f\u0131lan mutluluk ise b\u00fcy\u00fcyerek \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu nedenle hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki en k\u0131ymetli yat\u0131r\u0131m \u00e7o\u011fu zaman e\u015fyalar de\u011fil, g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 dostluklar ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insan ili\u015fkileridir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in bug\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama anlaml\u0131 bir ad\u0131m atabilirsiniz. Uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmedi\u011finiz bir dostunuzu aray\u0131n ya da ona samimi bir mesaj g\u00f6nderin. \u00d6zel bir sebep beklemeyin; yaln\u0131zca h\u00e2lini sorun ve onu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc hissettirin. Dostluk, sadece zor zamanlarda de\u011fil, g\u00fczel anlarda da emek isteyen bir ba\u011fd\u0131r.<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ilgi g\u00f6stergesi bile y\u0131llarca s\u00fcrecek s\u0131cak bir ili\u015fkinin yeniden canlanmas\u0131na vesile olabilir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za kutlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131 ile sevdiklerinizin sizi alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayn\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131 aras\u0131nda ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark vard\u0131r. Ya da g\u00fczel bir haberi ilk payla\u015fmak istedi\u011finiz ki\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bile, hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck nimetlerinden biridir. Seneca’n\u0131n<\/strong> bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize, ger\u00e7ek zenginli\u011fin yaln\u0131zca sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zda de\u011fil, yan\u0131m\u0131zda y\u00fcr\u00fcyen insanlarda sakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n en de\u011ferli anlar\u0131, payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a anlam kazan\u0131r; dostluk ise b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fczellikleri \u00e7o\u011faltan g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir hazinedir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Seneca Kimdir?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Seneca (M\u00d6 4-MS 65) Romal\u0131 filozof, devlet adam\u0131, oyun yazar\u0131 ve Stoac\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin en \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biridir. Tam ad\u0131 Lucius Annaeus Seneca olan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, erdemli ya\u015fam, mutluluk, dostluk, zaman\u0131n de\u011feri ve insan\u0131n i\u00e7 huzuru \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 eserlerle d\u00fcnya felsefesini derinden etkilemi\u015ftir. \u00d6zellikle ahlak felsefesi \u00fczerine kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 mektuplar ve denemeler, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, psikoloji ve ya\u015fam bilgeli\u011fi alan\u0131nda ilham vermeye devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n