{"id":19442,"date":"2016-02-11T17:59:44","date_gmt":"2016-02-11T15:59:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=17044"},"modified":"2026-04-22T16:26:21","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T16:26:21","slug":"kirma-dostun-kalbini-onaracak-ustasi-yok-soldurma-gonul-cicegini-sulamaya-ibrik-yok-yunus-emre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kirma-dostun-kalbini-onaracak-ustasi-yok-soldurma-gonul-cicegini-sulamaya-ibrik-yok-yunus-emre.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDon't break your friend's heart, there is no master to mend it. Do not wither the flower of the heart, there is no water to water it.\u201d Yunus Emre"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDon't break your friend's heart, there is no master to mend it. Do not wither the flower of the heart, there is no water to water it.\u201d Yunus Emre<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Yunus Emre\u2019nin \u201cK\u0131rma dostun kalbini, onaracak ustas\u0131 yok. Soldurma g\u00f6n\u00fcl \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fini, sulamaya ibrik yok.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerindeki en k\u0131r\u0131lgan ama en hayati noktaya i\u015faret eder: kalp incindi\u011finde her \u015fey eski haline d\u00f6nmez.<\/strong> Yunus Emre burada kalbin bir e\u015fya gibi tamir edilemeyece\u011fini, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn ise bir kez soldu mu ayn\u0131 canl\u0131l\u0131kla ye\u015fermesinin \u00e7ok zor oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. S\u00f6z\u00fcn derinli\u011finde; empati, merhamet ve sorumluluk bilinci vard\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, fark\u0131nda olmadan s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bir s\u00f6zle ya da g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi bir tav\u0131rla kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda onar\u0131lmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 izler b\u0131rakabilir. \u0130li\u015fkilerin ger\u00e7ek de\u011feri, tam da bu hassasiyetle korunur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri: \u201cBir nefes kural\u0131.\u201d<\/strong> Duygusal bir anda konu\u015fmadan ya da yazmadan \u00f6nce kendinize bir nefeslik zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n. O tek nefeste \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu s\u00f6z\u00fcm kar\u015f\u0131mdakinin g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc onar\u0131r m\u0131, yoksa k\u0131rar m\u0131?\u201d \u00c7o\u011fu k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k, k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetten de\u011fil; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden hareket etmekten do\u011far. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, hem ili\u015fkilerinizi korur hem de sizin duygusal olgunluk ve i\u00e7sel denge<\/strong> yolculu\u011funuzu g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin, bir dostunuz sizi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hemen sert bir tepki vermek \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r. Ama o anda durup kelimelerinizi yumu\u015fatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, ili\u015fkinin kaderi de\u011fi\u015fir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 kalpler bir kez k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ne \u00f6z\u00fcr ne de zaman onlar\u0131 tamamen eski haline getirebilir. Yunus Emre\u2019nin y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu bilgelik bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Kalbi korumak, insan\u0131 korumakt\u0131r; g\u00f6nl\u00fc incitmemek ise en b\u00fcy\u00fck insanl\u0131k sanat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Yunus Emre Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Yunus Emre, 13.\u201314. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck T\u00fcrk mutasavv\u0131f\u0131 ve halk \u015fairidir. Anadolu\u2019da sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, birlik ve insan merkezli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi sade bir T\u00fcrk\u00e7e ile dile getirmi\u015ftir. \u015eiirlerinde tasavvuf, ilahi a\u015fk, insan sevgisi ve i\u00e7sel ar\u0131nma temalar\u0131 \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar. Yunus Emre\u2019nin s\u00f6zleri y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r motivasyon, manevi geli\u015fim ve insani de\u011ferler alan\u0131nda ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmaya devam etmektedir. Sevgi temelli yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, modern ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bi\u00e7imde \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n