{"id":19400,"date":"2016-02-04T16:41:09","date_gmt":"2016-02-04T14:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16935"},"modified":"2026-09-28T06:53:15","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T06:53:15","slug":"bir-savasci-aciyi-aramaz-fakat-aci-geldiginde-onu-kullanmasini-bilir-dan-millman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-savasci-aciyi-aramaz-fakat-aci-geldiginde-onu-kullanmasini-bilir-dan-millman.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cA warrior does not seek pain; but when pain comes, he knows how to use it.\u201d Dan Millman"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA warrior does not seek pain; but when pain comes, he knows how to use it.\u201d Dan Millman<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Dan Millman\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olman\u0131n hi\u00e7 ac\u0131 ya\u015famamak anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131, kay\u0131plar, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar, ayr\u0131l\u0131klar ve zor d\u00f6nemler vard\u0131r. Bunlardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak her zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir; as\u0131l mesele, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenlerin bizi nas\u0131l \u015fekillendirece\u011fidir.<\/strong> Ac\u0131 bazen bize s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6sterir, bazen de\u011fi\u015ftirmemiz gereken bir \u015feyi fark ettirir, bazen de daha \u00f6nce sahip oldu\u011fumuzu bilmedi\u011fimiz bir dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Buradaki \u201csava\u015f\u00e7\u0131\u201d benzetmesi, ac\u0131y\u0131 romantikle\u015ftirmek ya da ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeyi bir erdem h\u00e2line getirmek de\u011fildir. Tam tersine, ya\u015fanan zorlu\u011fu ink\u00e2r etmeden onun i\u00e7inden \u00f6\u011frenerek \u00e7\u0131kabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Can\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ac\u0131tan bir olay ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hemen \u201cNeden benim ba\u015f\u0131ma geldi?\u201d sorusuna tak\u0131lmak yerine, \u201cBu deneyim bana ne g\u00f6steriyor?\u201d diye sorun.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131ysan\u0131z, yaln\u0131zca kendinizi ele\u015ftirmek yerine hangi becerinizin geli\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fine bakabilirsiniz. Bir ili\u015fkinin biti\u015fi sizi yaralad\u0131ysa, yaln\u0131zca kaybetti\u011finiz ki\u015fiye odaklanmak yerine kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 daha iyi anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m ac\u0131y\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmaz; fakat ona yeni bir anlam kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Ac\u0131y\u0131 kullanmak, ondan ka\u00e7mak de\u011fil; onun i\u00e7inden size g\u00fc\u00e7, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k veya y\u00f6n verebilecek bir \u015fey \u00e7\u0131karabilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir s\u0131navda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olan bir \u00f6\u011frenciyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u0130lk anda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 son derece ger\u00e7ek olabilir. Fakat birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra sakinle\u015fip nerede hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 inceler, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma y\u00f6ntemini de\u011fi\u015ftirir ve yeniden haz\u0131rlan\u0131rsa ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k art\u0131k yaln\u0131zca can\u0131n\u0131 yakan bir sonu\u00e7 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar; geli\u015fiminin bir par\u00e7as\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Hayatta da \u00e7o\u011fu zaman benzer bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 ya\u015far\u0131z. Bizi zorlayan her deneyim bizi otomatik olarak g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmez; ondan ne \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz ve sonras\u0131nda ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z belirleyicidir.<\/strong> G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmak, ac\u0131dan uzak bir hayat kurmak de\u011fil; ac\u0131 geldi\u011finde onun hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6netmesine izin vermeden, i\u00e7inden kendimize yeni bir yol \u00e7\u0131karabilmektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Dan Millman Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Dan Millman (1946-) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, konu\u015fmac\u0131, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim e\u011fitmeni ve eski d\u00fcnya \u015fampiyonu jimnastik\u00e7idir. 1946 y\u0131l\u0131nda Kaliforniya’da do\u011fan Millman, gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131nda jimnastikle ilgilenmi\u015f ve daha sonra spor, e\u011fitim ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alanlar\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. D\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan eserlerinin ba\u015f\u0131nda, otobiyografik unsurlar ta\u015f\u0131yan Way of the Peaceful Warrior<\/em> (Sava\u015f\u00e7\u0131\u2019n\u0131n Yolu<\/em>) gelir. Kitaplar\u0131nda fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, disiplin, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, ya\u015fam amac\u0131 ve i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm gibi konulara odaklanan Millman, seminer ve e\u011fitimleriyle de uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r bu alanlarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir. Onun yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131nda ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, yaln\u0131zca fiziksel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131ktan de\u011fil, insan\u0131n kendi zihni ve ya\u015fam\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkiden do\u011far.<\/p>\n

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