{"id":19383,"date":"2016-02-01T18:17:37","date_gmt":"2016-02-01T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16881"},"modified":"2026-02-17T20:08:42","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T20:08:42","slug":"hayat-boyledir-caresizlik-ve-tehlike-anlari-vardir-ki-o-zaman-cirpinmaya-ve-haykirmaya-gelmez-batar-insan-ve-bogulur-marifet-o-anlari-gecirmektir-sonrasi-gittikce-kolaylasir-kadere-teslim-olma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayat-boyledir-caresizlik-ve-tehlike-anlari-vardir-ki-o-zaman-cirpinmaya-ve-haykirmaya-gelmez-batar-insan-ve-bogulur-marifet-o-anlari-gecirmektir-sonrasi-gittikce-kolaylasir-kadere-teslim-olma.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLife is like that. There are moments of desperation and danger when it does not come to fluttering and shouting. Man sinks and drowns. The trick is to spend those moments. After that it gets easier. In those moments, you have to surrender to fate. This is not helplessness. Heed my word: There is a cure for almost everything in this world except death.\u201d Peyami Safa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cLife is like that. There are moments of desperation and danger when it does not come to fluttering and shouting. Man sinks and drowns. The trick is to spend those moments. After that it gets easier. In those moments, you have to surrender to fate. This is not helplessness. Heed my word: There is a cure for almost everything in this world except death.\u201d Peyami Safa<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Peyami Safa bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle<\/span><\/span>\u00a0asl\u0131nda kriz anlar\u0131nda nas\u0131l durmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131r. \u00c7aresizlik ve tehlike anlar\u0131nda paniklemek, \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nmak ya da hayk\u0131rmak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizi daha da dibe \u00e7eker. Oysa bazen yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken \u015fey, o dalgan\u0131n ge\u00e7mesini beklemektir. Her f\u0131rt\u0131na kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/strong> Motivasyon dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, sadece harekete ge\u00e7me cesareti de\u011fil; do\u011fru zamanda sabretme olgunlu\u011fudur. Teslimiyet burada pasiflik de\u011fil; kontrol edemedi\u011fimizi kabullenip enerjimizi do\u011fru yere saklama bilincidir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu: \u201c90 saniye kural\u0131\u201dn\u0131 deneyin.<\/strong> Yo\u011fun stres, \u00f6fke ya da panik an\u0131nda hemen tepki vermek yerine 90 saniye boyunca sadece nefesinize odaklan\u0131n. Bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, yo\u011fun duygusal dalgan\u0131n fizyolojik etkisinin k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck duraklama, sizi batmaktan kurtaran bilin\u00e7li bir y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f hamlesidir. Tepkiyi ertelemek, g\u00fcc\u00fc geri kazanmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her kriz an\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmek zorunda de\u011filiz; bazen sadece o an\u0131 ge\u00e7irmemiz gerekir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; i\u015finizi kaybetti\u011finiz bir g\u00fcn, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bitti\u011fini sanabilirsiniz. Bir ili\u015fkinin sonu, sanki t\u00fcm gelece\u011fin karard\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissini yaratabilir. Ama zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz ki \u00e7o\u011fu \u015feyin \u00e7aresi vard\u0131r: yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7, yeni bir yol, yeni bir umut\u2026 Peyami Safa<\/span><\/span>\u2019n\u0131n mesaj\u0131 nettir: En karanl\u0131k an ge\u00e7icidir; \u00f6nemli olan o anda batmamakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Bizler sabr\u0131, bilin\u00e7li teslimiyeti ve i\u00e7sel direnci geli\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde; motivasyon sadece y\u00fckseli\u015f anlar\u0131nda de\u011fil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f anlar\u0131nda da bizimle olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, dayanabildi\u011fimiz kadar geni\u015fler.<\/p>\n

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Peyami Safa Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Peyami Safa (1899-1961) T\u00fcrk romanc\u0131, gazeteci ve fikir adam\u0131d\u0131r. T\u00fcrk edebiyat\u0131nda psikolojik tahlilleri ve Do\u011fu-Bat\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ele al\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imiyle \u00f6nemli bir yere sahiptir. \u201cDokuzuncu Hariciye Ko\u011fu\u015fu\u201d ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere bir\u00e7ok eseriyle bireyin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 derinlemesine i\u015flemi\u015ftir. Romanlar\u0131nda insan ruhunun karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve varolu\u015fsal m\u00fccadeleyi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir anlat\u0131mla yans\u0131tm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Edebiyat ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n