{"id":19360,"date":"2016-01-30T00:52:42","date_gmt":"2016-01-29T22:52:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16818"},"modified":"2026-02-27T09:41:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T09:41:30","slug":"alkis-zayiflarin-amaci-ve-sonudur-charles-caleb-colton","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/alkis-zayiflarin-amaci-ve-sonudur-charles-caleb-colton.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cApplause is the goal and end of the weak.\u201d Charles Caleb Colton"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cApplause is the goal and end of the weak.\u201d Charles Caleb Colton<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cAlk\u0131\u015f, zay\u0131flar\u0131n amac\u0131 ve sonudur.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Charles Caleb Colton<\/span><\/span>, d\u0131\u015f onay ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na dair sert ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc bir mesaj verir. Alk\u0131\u015f, takdir edilme ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olma iste\u011fi insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak mesele \u015fudur: E\u011fer yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tek amac\u0131 alk\u0131\u015f almaksa, y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc kendi de\u011ferlerimiz de\u011fil ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentileri belirler. D\u0131\u015f onayla beslenen motivasyon k\u0131r\u0131lgand\u0131r; alk\u0131\u015f kesildi\u011finde y\u00f6n de kaybolur.<\/strong> Colton burada zay\u0131fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemekten \u00e7ok, i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcn kayna\u011f\u0131na dikkat \u00e7eker: Ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, kimse g\u00f6rmezken de do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapabilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6nemli bir i\u015fi \u201cg\u00f6r\u00fcnmeden\u201d yapmay\u0131 deneyin. Sosyal medyada payla\u015fmadan, takdir beklemeden, sadece kendi geli\u015fiminiz i\u00e7in \u00fcretin. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir hafta boyunca spor yap\u0131n ama bunu kimseye duyurmay\u0131n. Ya da bir projeyi sessizce ilerletin. \u0130\u00e7sel motivasyon kas\u0131, alk\u0131\u015f olmadan \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/strong> Bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, \u00f6zg\u00fcveni ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n tepkilerine de\u011fil, kendi standartlar\u0131n\u0131za dayand\u0131rman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki bir i\u00e7erik \u00fcretiyorsunuz ve be\u011feni say\u0131lar\u0131 bekledi\u011finiz gibi gelmiyor. E\u011fer oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131z alk\u0131\u015fsa, motivasyon h\u0131zla d\u00fc\u015fer. Ama oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fer \u00fcretmekse, s\u00fcre\u00e7 devam eder. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda alk\u0131\u015f ge\u00e7icidir; geli\u015fim kal\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, alk\u0131\u015f duyuldu\u011funda de\u011fil; alk\u0131\u015f olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da yola devam edebildi\u011fimizde ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em> Charles Caleb Colton<\/span><\/span>\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven yolculu\u011funda i\u00e7sel pusulam\u0131z\u0131 yeniden ayarlamam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Charles Caleb Colton Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Charles Caleb Colton<\/span><\/span> (1780-1832) \u0130ngiliz yazar, din adam\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u00d6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zleri ve aforizmalar\u0131yla tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130nsan do\u011fas\u0131, ahlak ve toplum \u00fczerine keskin g\u00f6zlemler yapm\u0131\u015f; \u00f6zellikle \u201cLacon\u201d adl\u0131 eseriyle geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ele\u015ftirel ve ironik \u00fcslubuyla bireyin i\u00e7sel motivasyonu ve karakter g\u00fcc\u00fc \u00fczerine dikkat \u00e7ekici yorumlar b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n