{"id":19320,"date":"2016-01-25T18:37:33","date_gmt":"2016-01-25T18:37:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16670"},"modified":"2026-05-16T13:44:14","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T13:44:14","slug":"karamsar-ruzgardan-sikayet-eder-iyimser-ruzgarin-degismesini-bekler-gercekci-ise-yelkenlerini-ruzgara-gore-ayarlar-william-arthur-ward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/karamsar-ruzgardan-sikayet-eder-iyimser-ruzgarin-degismesini-bekler-gercekci-ise-yelkenlerini-ruzgara-gore-ayarlar-william-arthur-ward.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe pessimist complains about the wind, the optimist waits for the wind to change, the realistic adjusts his sails to the wind.\u201d William Arthur Ward"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe pessimist complains about the wind, the optimist waits for the wind to change, the realistic adjusts his sails to the wind.\u201d William Arthur Ward<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cKaramsar r\u00fczgardan \u015fikayet eder, iyimser r\u00fczgar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini bekler, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i ise yelkenlerini r\u00fczgara g\u00f6re ayarlar.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayata kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam kalitemizi nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde anlat\u0131r. William Arthur Ward<\/span><\/span> burada yaln\u0131zca iyimserlik ve karamsarl\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc de vurgular. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat her zaman istedi\u011fimiz ko\u015fullar\u0131 sunmaz. Beklenmedik sorunlar, ekonomik zorluklar, ili\u015fkisel problemler ya da ani de\u011fi\u015fimler hepimizin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kabilir. Karamsar insan s\u00fcrekli \u015fartlardan yak\u0131n\u0131r, iyimser insan her \u015feyin kendili\u011finden d\u00fczelece\u011fini umut eder; fakat ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i insan mevcut durumu kabul edip ona g\u00f6re hareket etmeyi se\u00e7er. Hayatta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kalabilmek, r\u00fczgar\u0131 kontrol etmekten \u00e7ok; y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yeniden ayarlayabilme becerisine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz etkili bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir sorun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBen \u015fu anda neyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilirim?\u201d \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kontrol edemedi\u011fi \u015feylere odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yorulur. Trafik, hava durumu, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ya da ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim kontrol\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kal\u0131r. Ancak tavr\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, plan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz. Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek umutsuz olmak de\u011fil; mevcut ko\u015fullar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp buna ra\u011fmen \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmeye devam edebilmektir.<\/strong> Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi bile b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7\u0131kmaz\u0131 f\u0131rsata d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunun \u00f6rneklerini s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u0130\u015fini kaybeden biri yeni beceriler \u00f6\u011frenerek farkl\u0131 bir alanda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olabilir. Bekledi\u011fi sonucu alamayan bir \u00f6\u011frenci \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma y\u00f6ntemini de\u011fi\u015ftirerek geli\u015febilir. Zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7en insanlar bile, \u015fartlara uyum sa\u011flamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendiklerinde yeniden g\u00fc\u00e7 kazanabilirler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sabit de\u011fil, hareketli bir deniz gibidir. R\u00fczgar her zaman istedi\u011fimiz y\u00f6nden esmeyebilir. \u00d6nemli olan, hayat\u0131n sert r\u00fczgarlar\u0131na ra\u011fmen yelkenlerimizi yeniden ayarlayabilmek ve yol almaya devam edebilmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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William Arthur Ward<\/span><\/span> Kimdir?<\/h2>\n

William Arthur Ward<\/span><\/span> (1921-1994) Amerikal\u0131 motivasyon yazar\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce insan\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, e\u011fitim, liderlik ve ya\u015fam felsefesi \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilham verici s\u00f6zlerle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yaz\u0131lar\u0131nda insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fc, olumlu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, de\u011fi\u015fime uyum sa\u011flama ve ki\u015fisel sorumluluk gibi temalar\u0131 i\u015flemi\u015ftir. \u00d6\u011fretmenler, y\u00f6neticiler ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir\u00e7ok insan taraf\u0131ndan s\u00f6zleri uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. William Arthur Ward\u2019\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, sade ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc anlat\u0131m\u0131yla ya\u015fam\u0131n zorluklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 daha bilin\u00e7li ve yap\u0131c\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 geli\u015ftirmeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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