{"id":19207,"date":"2016-01-18T22:57:59","date_gmt":"2016-01-18T20:57:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16398"},"modified":"2026-06-28T16:45:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-28T16:45:16","slug":"ey-burnu-kanasa-hemen-kadere-kusup-yuzunu-eksiten-gulden-hic-ders-almiyor-musun-butun-yapraklari-tek-tek-yolsan-gul-yine-de-gulmekten-vazgecmez-hem-bilmez-misin-ki-basina-gelen-sikintilar-aslind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ey-burnu-kanasa-hemen-kadere-kusup-yuzunu-eksiten-gulden-hic-ders-almiyor-musun-butun-yapraklari-tek-tek-yolsan-gul-yine-de-gulmekten-vazgecmez-hem-bilmez-misin-ki-basina-gelen-sikintilar-aslind.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cO, the one whose nose bleeds and grimaces at fate. Don't you ever learn from Gul? If you pluck all the leaves one by one, the rose still won't stop smiling. Besides, don't you know that the troubles that happen to him actually set a bigger problem and get rid of the trouble in his head. Then you can smile." Mevlana"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ey burnu kanasa hemen kadere k\u00fcs\u00fcp y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc ek\u015fiten. G\u00fclden hi\u00e7 ders alm\u0131yor musun? B\u00fct\u00fcn yapraklar\u0131 tek tek yolsan, g\u00fcl yine de g\u00fclmekten vazge\u00e7mez. Hem bilmez misin ki, ba\u015f\u0131na gelen s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar asl\u0131nda daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya set olur da, ba\u015f\u0131ndaki belay\u0131 def eder. O halde y\u00fcz\u00fcn g\u00fcls\u00fcn.” Mevlana<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayatta hepimiz zaman zaman zorluklarla, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131yla ve beklenmedik s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131larla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Ancak Mevlana<\/strong>, bu derin s\u00f6z\u00fcyle ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her olumsuzlu\u011fu kadere k\u00fcsmek i\u00e7in bir neden olarak g\u00f6rmek yerine, onun i\u00e7inde gizlenmi\u015f bir anlam\u0131 fark etmemizi \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler. Nas\u0131l ki g\u00fcl, yapraklar\u0131 d\u00f6k\u00fclse bile g\u00fcl olmay\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyorsa; bizler de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kay\u0131plar\u0131n, engellerin ve ac\u0131lar\u0131n kim oldu\u011fumuzu belirlemesine izin vermemeliyiz. Bazen bug\u00fcn bizi \u00fczen bir olay, yar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilece\u011fimiz daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mi\u015f olabilir.<\/strong> Hayat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6remedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in baz\u0131 olaylar\u0131 hemen k\u00f6t\u00fc olarak etiketleriz. Oysa zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e bir\u00e7ok ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizi olgunla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi\u011fini ve do\u011fru yola y\u00f6nlendirdi\u011fini fark ederiz.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulamak i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama etkili bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k edinebiliriz. Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir olayda hemen olumsuza odaklanmak yerine kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: “Bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m olay bana ne \u00f6\u011fretiyor olabilir?”<\/strong> Bu tek soru, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihnimiz sorun aramaya programland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda umudu g\u00f6remez; fakat anlam aramaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda geli\u015fim f\u0131rsatlar\u0131n\u0131 fark eder. Ya\u015fanan her zorluk mutlaka g\u00fczel de\u011fildir; ancak bir\u00e7ok zorluk, do\u011fru de\u011ferlendirildi\u011finde bizi daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, daha bilin\u00e7li ve daha dayan\u0131kl\u0131 bir insana d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; istedi\u011finiz bir i\u015fe kabul edilmediniz ya da planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir yolculuk iptal oldu. \u0130lk anda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fayabilirsiniz. Fakat belki de bu geli\u015fme sizi \u00e7ok daha do\u011fru bir f\u0131rsata y\u00f6nlendirecek, yeni insanlar tan\u0131man\u0131za ya da hayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u00f6nemli bir de\u011fi\u015fimin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayacakt\u0131r. Mevlana’n\u0131n<\/strong> bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, umut etmeyi k\u00f6r\u00fc k\u00f6r\u00fcne beklemek de\u011fil; ya\u015fananlar\u0131n i\u00e7indeki gizli anlam\u0131 aramay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretir. Hayat bazen yapraklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 savurur; ama k\u00f6klerimiz sa\u011flam kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yeniden \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7mam\u0131z her zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mevlana Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee, 13. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir mutasavv\u0131f, \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendini bilmesi ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm temalar\u0131 etraf\u0131nda \u015fekillenen eserleriyle yaln\u0131zca \u0130slam d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkilemi\u015ftir. En bilinen eseri Mesnev\u00ee, insan\u0131n i\u00e7 yolculu\u011funu ve olgunla\u015fma s\u00fcrecini derin metaforlarla anlat\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n s\u00f6zleri, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7se de harekete ge\u00e7iren, umut a\u015f\u0131layan ve sorumluluk alan bir ya\u015fam felsefesini canl\u0131 tutmaya devam eder.<\/p>\n

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En \u0130yi Umut S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n