{"id":19166,"date":"2016-01-16T23:53:30","date_gmt":"2016-01-16T21:53:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16296"},"modified":"2026-03-20T10:12:56","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T10:12:56","slug":"eger-korkmasaydin-ne-yapardin-spencer-johnson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/eger-korkmasaydin-ne-yapardin-spencer-johnson.html","title":{"rendered":""What would you do if you weren't afraid?" Spencer Johnson"},"content":{"rendered":"

"What would you do if you weren't afraid?" Spencer Johnson<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\""Kendi<\/a><\/p>\n

Korku, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izgisi gibidir. Spencer Johnson\u2019\u0131n \u201cE\u011fer korkmasayd\u0131n, ne yapard\u0131n?\u201d sorusu, asl\u0131nda bizi korkunun kendisini de\u011fil, onun ard\u0131na saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z potansiyelimizi sorgulamaya davet eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc korku \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7ek bir tehlikeden de\u011fil, zihnimizin \u00fcretti\u011fi ihtimallerden beslenir. Yeni bir i\u015fe ba\u015flamak, bir ili\u015fkiyi onarmak, hayalini kurdu\u011fumuz projeyi hayata ge\u00e7irmek ya da kendimizi daha a\u00e7\u0131k ifade etmek\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engel \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnya de\u011fil, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olma ihtimaline verdi\u011fimiz anlamd\u0131r<\/strong>. Bu soru, bizi konfor alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itmekten \u00e7ok, asl\u0131nda zaten i\u00e7imizde var olan cesareti fark etmeye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck pi\u015fmanl\u0131k, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatalar de\u011fil; korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 denemedikleridir<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Peki bu s\u00f6z\u00fc g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda nas\u0131l uygulayabiliriz? Basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri: G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde erteledi\u011finiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7in ve kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBeni ger\u00e7ekten durduran \u015fey ne?\u201d<\/strong> Ard\u0131ndan ikinci soruyu ekleyin: \u201cKorku olmasayd\u0131 \u015fu anda hangi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131m\u0131 atard\u0131m?\u201d<\/strong> B\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dramatik kararlarla de\u011fil, mikro cesaret anlar\u0131yla ba\u015flar. \u00d6rne\u011fin uzun zamand\u0131r aramak isteyip aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birini aramak, bir fikrinizi toplant\u0131da payla\u015fmak ya da erteledi\u011finiz bir hedef i\u00e7in ilk sayfay\u0131 a\u00e7mak\u2026 Bu y\u00f6ntem, korkuyu yok etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz; onunla birlikte hareket etmeyi \u00f6\u011fretir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cesaret, korkunun yoklu\u011fu de\u011fil, korkuya ra\u011fmen hareket edebilme becerisidir<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n bir\u00e7ok alan\u0131nda ayn\u0131 tabloyu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: Yazmak isteyen ama ele\u015ftirilmekten \u00e7ekinen biri, spor yapmak isteyen ama ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekten korkan biri ya da kariyer de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi hayal eden fakat belirsizlikten ka\u00e7\u0131nan biri\u2026 Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ilk ad\u0131m at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda korkunun b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc h\u0131zla k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Spencer Johnson\u2019\u0131n sorusu bu y\u00fczden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc cevap zihinsel de\u011fil, eylemseldir. Kendimize d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e sordu\u011fumuzda fark ederiz ki hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey b\u00fcy\u00fck f\u0131rsatlar de\u011fil, korkuya ra\u011fmen att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama kararl\u0131 ad\u0131mlard\u0131r<\/strong>. Ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, korkunun ortadan kalkmas\u0131n\u0131 bekledi\u011fimizde de\u011fil; onunla birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz anda ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Spencer Johnson Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Spencer Johnson (1938-2017) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, doktor ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nan bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u00d6zellikle de\u011fi\u015fim, liderlik ve bireysel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm temalar\u0131n\u0131 sade hik\u00e2yelerle anlatmas\u0131yla bilinir. En \u00fcnl\u00fc eseri olan Who Got My Cheese?<\/em> (Who Moved My Cheese?<\/em>) kitab\u0131, de\u011fi\u015fime uyum sa\u011flama ve korkularla y\u00fczle\u015fme konular\u0131nda milyonlarca okuyucuya ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Johnson\u2019\u0131n eserleri, karma\u015f\u0131k psikolojik kavramlar\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulanabilir hale getirmesiyle \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar ve modern motivasyon literat\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn en etkili anlat\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri olarak kabul edilir.<\/p>\n

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Cesaret \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n