{"id":18939,"date":"2016-06-30T03:26:28","date_gmt":"2016-06-30T00:26:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=18939"},"modified":"2026-09-13T17:02:38","modified_gmt":"2026-09-13T17:02:38","slug":"hayatin-hem-sana-aittir-hem-de-degildir-ip-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatin-hem-sana-aittir-hem-de-degildir-ip-man.html","title":{"rendered":"“Hayat\u0131n hem sana aittir hem de de\u011fildir.” Ip Man 3"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hayat\u0131n hem sana aittir hem de de\u011fildir.” Ip Man 3<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Hayat\u0131n hem size aittir hem de de\u011fildir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir yandan kendi se\u00e7imlerinizden, kararlar\u0131n\u0131zdan ve att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ad\u0131mlardan siz sorumlusunuz; di\u011fer yandan hi\u00e7bir insan d\u00fcnyada tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015famaz. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z, sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131n, ailemizin, dostlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fin ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz toplumun hayat\u0131yla birbirine dokunur.<\/strong> Bu nedenle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, yaln\u0131zca \u201cBen ne istiyorsam onu yapar\u0131m.\u201d demek de\u011fildir. As\u0131l \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu \u00fcstlenirken se\u00e7imlerimizin ba\u015fkalar\u0131 \u00fczerindeki etkisini de g\u00f6rebilmektir. Ip Man\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayat\u0131n bize ait olan y\u00f6n\u00fcyle bizden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn par\u00e7as\u0131 olan y\u00f6n\u00fc aras\u0131ndaki ince dengeyi anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Herhangi bir sorunla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bir k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da iki s\u00fctun a\u00e7\u0131n ve \u201cBenim kontrol\u00fcmde\u201d ile \u201cBenim kontrol\u00fcmde de\u011fil\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131n.<\/strong> Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z durumla ilgili de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011finiz, yapabilece\u011finiz veya karar verebilece\u011finiz ne varsa ilk s\u00fctuna; ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar ve sizin m\u00fcdahale edemeyece\u011finiz ko\u015fullar\u0131 ikinci s\u00fctuna yaz\u0131n. Ard\u0131ndan yaln\u0131zca ilk s\u00fctundaki bir konu i\u00e7in harekete ge\u00e7in. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck uygulama, zihnimizde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7aresizlik duygusunu azalt\u0131r ve dikkatimizi yeniden eyleyebilece\u011fimiz alana<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131r. Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da bu, enerjimizi de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyece\u011fimiz \u015feylere harcamak yerine kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerinde ger\u00e7ek bir etki olu\u015fturmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin y\u0131llard\u0131r hayalini kurdu\u011funuz bir i\u015fi yapmak i\u00e7in bulundu\u011funuz \u015fehirden ayr\u0131lmaya karar verdi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bu hayat sizin hayat\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r ve elbette kendi d\u00fc\u015flerinizin pe\u015finden gitme hakk\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131r. Fakat arkan\u0131zda b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z e\u015finiz, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z, anne-baban\u0131z ya da sizin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za ihtiya\u00e7 duyan insanlar varsa, karar yaln\u0131zca \u201cBen ne istiyorum?\u201d sorusuyla verilemez. Onlar\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 dinlemek, kendi arzunuzu da yok saymadan ortak bir yol aramak gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat bize verilmi\u015f ki\u015fisel bir alan oldu\u011fu kadar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131na dokundu\u011fumuz ortak bir yolculuktur.<\/strong> Belki de Ip Man\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc bize tam olarak bunu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131n; ama hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yaln\u0131zca size ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 unutmay\u0131n.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ip Man Konusu<\/h3>\n

Ip Man (1893-1972), \u00c7inli Wing Chun ustas\u0131 ve d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f sanatlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmenidir. Foshan’da do\u011fan Ip Man, \u00f6zellikle Wing Chun<\/strong> d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f sanat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri olarak tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ve ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerinde Hong Kong’da ders vererek bu sanat\u0131n uluslararas\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7ekte yay\u0131lmas\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunmu\u015ftur. Bruce Lee’nin de \u00f6\u011frencileri aras\u0131nda yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 Ip Man, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ekilen film serileri sayesinde d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda daha geni\u015f bir kitle taraf\u0131ndan tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ip Man 3<\/em> filmi de onun ya\u015fam\u0131ndan esinlenen, ancak biyografik ger\u00e7eklerle sinematik anlat\u0131m\u0131 bir arada kullanan etkileyici bir yap\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n