{"id":18824,"date":"2016-01-07T23:29:35","date_gmt":"2016-01-07T21:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=16028"},"modified":"2026-02-28T11:12:31","modified_gmt":"2026-02-28T11:12:31","slug":"kendinizden-baska-kimse-size-baris-getiremez-ralph-waldo-emerson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kendinizden-baska-kimse-size-baris-getiremez-ralph-waldo-emerson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo one can bring you peace but yourself.\u201d Ralph W. Emerson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo one can bring you peace but yourself.\u201d Ralph W. Emerson<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cKendinizden ba\u015fka kimse size bar\u0131\u015f getiremez.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/span><\/span>, i\u00e7 huzurun d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullara emanet edilemeyece\u011fini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir bi\u00e7imde ifade eder. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman bar\u0131\u015f\u0131; daha iyi bir i\u015fte, daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 bir ili\u015fkide ya da daha sorunsuz bir hayatta arar\u0131z. Oysa d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fken, hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kontrol\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek bar\u0131\u015f, ko\u015fullar\u0131n de\u011fil; bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong> Emerson\u2019un vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi i\u00e7sel dengeyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, huzurumuzu da onlar\u0131n insaf\u0131na b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f oluruz. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yolculu\u011funda en kritik ad\u0131m, sorumlulu\u011fu d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan i\u00e7eriye ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi rahats\u0131z eden bir olay ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hemen d\u0131\u015far\u0131y\u0131 su\u00e7lamak yerine kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu durumda benim kontrol edebilece\u011fim \u015fey ne?\u201d Cevap bazen sadece tutumunuzdur. Kontrol alan\u0131n\u0131za odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, zihinsel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz artar; kontrol edemediklerinize tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda enerjiniz azal\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, motivasyonunuzu ve i\u00e7sel bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n en etkili yollar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki i\u015f yerinde beklemedi\u011finiz bir ele\u015ftiri ald\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130lk tepki savunma ya da k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k olabilir. Fakat bir ad\u0131m geri \u00e7ekilip \u201cBen bu deneyimden ne \u00f6\u011frenebilirim?\u201d diye sordu\u011funuzda tablo de\u011fi\u015fir. Ele\u015ftiriyi ki\u015fisel sald\u0131r\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p geli\u015fim f\u0131rsat\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz an, huzur yeniden sizin kontrol\u00fcn\u00fcze ge\u00e7er. Bar\u0131\u015f, d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki f\u0131rt\u0131nan\u0131n dinmesi de\u011fil; i\u00e7inizdeki denizin durulmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc; i\u00e7sel huzur, \u00f6z sorumluluk ve bilin\u00e7li ya\u015fam \u00fczerine zamans\u0131z bir rehberdir.<\/p>\n

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Ralph Waldo Emerson Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/span><\/span> (1803-1882) Amerikal\u0131 denemeci, \u015fair ve filozoftur. Transandantalizm ak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fclerinden biri olarak bireysel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, do\u011fa ile uyum ve i\u00e7sel sezginin \u00f6nemini savunmu\u015ftur. \u201cSelf-Reliance\u201d (Kendine G\u00fcven) gibi eserleriyle ki\u015fisel sorumluluk ve i\u00e7sel g\u00fc\u00e7 \u00fczerine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc fikirler ortaya koymu\u015f; Amerikan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarihinde kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etki b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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