{"id":18645,"date":"2015-12-21T22:34:25","date_gmt":"2015-12-21T20:34:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=15634"},"modified":"2026-07-23T22:29:00","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T22:29:00","slug":"herkes-er-ya-da-gec-kendi-hayati-sandigi-bir-hikaye-bulur-max-frisch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/herkes-er-ya-da-gec-kendi-hayati-sandigi-bir-hikaye-bulur-max-frisch.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEveryone sooner or later finds a story that they think is their own life.\u201d Max Frisch"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cEveryone sooner or later finds a story that they think is their own life.\u201d Max Frisch<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u0130nsan, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 olaylar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca deneyimlemez; ayn\u0131 zamanda onlara anlam y\u00fckleyerek kendi hayat hik\u00e2yesini de olu\u015fturur. Max Frisch’in “Herkes er ya da ge\u00e7 kendi hayat\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir hik\u00e2ye bulur.” s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ger\u00e7eklerden \u00e7ok, kendimize anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hik\u00e2yelerin \u015fekillendirdi\u011fini anlat\u0131r.<\/strong> “Ben ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z biriyim.”, “Ben \u015fanss\u0131z\u0131m.” ya da “Ben bunu yapamam.” gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler zamanla kimli\u011fimizin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 h\u00e2line gelebilir. Oysa bunlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman de\u011fi\u015fmez ger\u00e7ekler de\u011fil, ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimlerimizden olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz yorumlard\u0131r. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimin en \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlar\u0131ndan biri, bizi s\u0131n\u0131rlayan hik\u00e2yeleri fark etmek ve gerekirse onlar\u0131 yeniden yazabilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, kendiniz hakk\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k tekrar etti\u011finiz olumsuz bir c\u00fcmleyi yakalay\u0131p yerine daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i ve geli\u015ftirici bir ifade yazmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin, “Ben hi\u00e7bir konuda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olam\u0131yorum.” yerine “Hen\u00fcz istedi\u011fim ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015famad\u0131m, ama \u00f6\u011frenmeye devam ediyorum.” diyebilirsiniz. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fiklik, yaln\u0131zca kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kelimeleri de\u011fil, olaylara bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeye ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihnimiz, kendimize anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hik\u00e2yelere inanma e\u011filimindedir.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ayn\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fayan iki ki\u015fiden biri bunu “Ben yetersizim.” diye yorumlarken, di\u011feri “Bu bana \u00f6nemli bir ders verdi.” diye de\u011ferlendiriyor. Aradan ge\u00e7en zaman i\u00e7inde ikinci ki\u015finin daha fazla denemeye cesaret etti\u011fini ve geli\u015fmeye devam etti\u011fini g\u00f6rmek \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yazar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde biziz. Bizi ileri ta\u015f\u0131yan ya da oldu\u011fumuz yerde tutan \u015fey, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hangi hik\u00e2yeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczd\u00fcr. Hik\u00e2yemizi de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fc de de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em> Max Frisch’in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bize kendi ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde yazma cesareti vermektedir.<\/p>\n

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Max Frisch Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Max Frisch (1911-1991) \u0130svi\u00e7reli romanc\u0131, oyun yazar\u0131 ve mimard\u0131r. 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l Alman dili edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilen Frisch, eserlerinde kimlik, bireyin kendini ke\u015ffetmesi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, toplum ve insan ili\u015fkileri gibi temalar\u0131 derinlemesine i\u015flemi\u015ftir. Homo Faber, Stiller ve Andorra gibi eserleriyle uluslararas\u0131 \u00fcn kazanm\u0131\u015f, insan\u0131n kendisi hakk\u0131nda olu\u015fturdu\u011fu kimlik ve ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle edebiyat ve felsefe d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, psikoloji ve insan do\u011fas\u0131 \u00fczerine yap\u0131lan de\u011ferlendirmelerde s\u0131k\u00e7a ba\u015fvurulan yazarlardan biridir.<\/p>\n

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Change Your Story, Change Your World<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n