{"id":18488,"date":"2016-05-16T19:12:01","date_gmt":"2016-05-16T19:12:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=18488"},"modified":"2026-08-28T07:31:43","modified_gmt":"2026-08-28T07:31:43","slug":"birini-yenmek-cok-kolaydir-asil-zor-olan-birini-kazanmaktir-abdul-kalam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birini-yenmek-cok-kolaydir-asil-zor-olan-birini-kazanmaktir-abdul-kalam.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIt is very easy to beat someone; The hardest part is to win over someone.\u201d Abdul Kalam"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt is very easy to beat someone; The hardest part is to win over someone.\u201d Abdul Kalam<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Abdul Kalam\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 yaln\u0131zca \u00fcst\u00fcn gelmekle de\u011fil, insan kazanmakla \u00f6l\u00e7memiz gerekti\u011fini<\/strong> hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bir tart\u0131\u015fmada kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini susturabilir, bir m\u00fccadelede rakibimizi geride b\u0131rakabilir veya hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu kan\u0131tlayabiliriz. Fakat bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri mutlaka ger\u00e7ek bir kazan\u0131m anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir insan\u0131 yenmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman anl\u0131k bir g\u00fc\u00e7 g\u00f6sterisidir; bir insan\u0131n g\u00fcvenini, sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini kazanmak ise zaman, sab\u0131r ve samimiyet ister.<\/strong> Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda baz\u0131 insanlarla ayn\u0131 fikirde olmayabilir, hatta ciddi anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ya\u015fayabiliriz. Buna ra\u011fmen onlar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeden dinleyebilmek, kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131z kadar onlar\u0131n duygular\u0131na da de\u011fer verebilmek, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n i\u00e7inden bir ba\u011f kurabilmek ger\u00e7ek bir olgunluk g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir sonraki anla\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong> Konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6lmeden dinleyin ve cevap vermeden \u00f6nce \u201cSizin i\u00e7in as\u0131l \u00f6nemli olan ne?\u201d diye sorun. Ard\u0131ndan kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenizi sakin bi\u00e7imde ifade edin. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fiklik, tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 bi\u00e7imde de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar\u0131 kazanmak, her konuda onlarla ayn\u0131 fikirde olmak anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bazen bir insan\u0131 kazanman\u0131n yolu, onunla ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten de\u011fil, farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz h\u00e2lde ona sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermekten ge\u00e7er.<\/strong> \u0130\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131nda bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanla, aile i\u00e7inde bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zla veya arkada\u015f \u00e7evrenizde bir dostunuzla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anla\u015fmazl\u0131klarda bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 deneyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir y\u00f6netici \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatay\u0131 herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde sert bi\u00e7imde ele\u015ftirerek onu susturabilir; b\u00f6ylece o an i\u00e7in \u201ckazanm\u0131\u015f\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir. Fakat ayn\u0131 y\u00f6netici \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131 dinler, hatan\u0131n nedenini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olursa yaln\u0131zca problemi \u00e7\u00f6zmez, g\u00fcven duydu\u011fu bir insan da kazan\u0131r.<\/strong> Benzer \u015fekilde bir ebeveyn \u00e7ocu\u011funu zorlayarak istedi\u011fini yapt\u0131rabilir; ancak onu dinleyip nedenlerini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda aralar\u0131ndaki ba\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilir. Hayatta b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z en de\u011ferli izler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyi geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla de\u011fil, ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na g\u00fcven, sayg\u0131 ve iyilik katt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla<\/strong> ilgilidir. Birini yenmek size bir zafer kazand\u0131rabilir; birini kazanmak ise hayat\u0131n\u0131za bir insan kazand\u0131r\u0131r. As\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini ezmeden onunla birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7lenebilmektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Abdul Kalam Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Abdul Kalam (1931-2015) Hint bilim insan\u0131, havac\u0131l\u0131k m\u00fchendisi ve siyaset\u00e7idir. 15 Ekim 1931’de Rameswaram, Tamil Nadu, Hindistan’da do\u011fan Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam, Hindistan’\u0131n uzay ve savunma teknolojileri alan\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda \u00f6nemli g\u00f6revler \u00fcstlendi. Hindistan Uzay Ara\u015ft\u0131rma \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc (ISRO) ve Savunma Ara\u015ft\u0131rma ve Geli\u015ftirme \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc (DRDO) b\u00fcnyesinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak \u00fclkesinin uydu f\u0131rlatma ara\u00e7lar\u0131 ve f\u00fcze programlar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015ftirilmesine katk\u0131da bulundu. Bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 nedeniyle Hindistan’da \u201cHindistan’\u0131n F\u00fcze Adam\u0131\u201d olarak tan\u0131nd\u0131. 2002-2007 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda Hindistan’\u0131n 11. Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rev yapan Kalam, \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7leri bilim, e\u011fitim, \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve toplumsal geli\u015fim konusunda te\u015fvik eden konu\u015fmalar\u0131yla geni\u015f bir kitleye ula\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7ok say\u0131da kitap kaleme alan Kalam, ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca gen\u00e7lerin potansiyellerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmesine b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem verdi.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n