{"id":18389,"date":"2015-11-23T02:45:40","date_gmt":"2015-11-23T02:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=14852"},"modified":"2026-02-14T09:27:02","modified_gmt":"2026-02-14T09:27:02","slug":"ozunu-biiirsen-ozurden-kurtuiursun-haci-bektas-i-veli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ozunu-biiirsen-ozurden-kurtuiursun-haci-bektas-i-veli.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you know your essence, you will get rid of apology.\u201d Haci Bektas-i Veli"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you know your essence, you will get rid of apology.\u201d Haci Bektas-i Veli<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201c\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilirsen, \u00f6z\u00fcrden kurtulursun.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendi hakikatine yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda mazeret \u00fcretmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilmeyen ki\u015fi; korkular\u0131n\u0131 karakter zanneder, ertelemelerini kader diye yorumlar, yetersizlik hissini ise de\u011fi\u015fmez bir kimlik gibi ta\u015f\u0131r. Oysa \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong>, insan\u0131n kendi de\u011ferlerini, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve zay\u0131f yanlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e g\u00f6rmesidir. Hac\u0131 Bekt\u00e2\u015f-\u0131 Vel\u00ee\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, motivasyonun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullarda de\u011fil, insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7 merkezinde aramam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yler. Kendini tan\u0131yan insan, bahaneye de\u011fil, sorumlulu\u011fa yaslan\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilen ki\u015fi, neyi neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir; yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da bunun sorumlulu\u011funu \u00fcstlenir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6neri: Her g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m \u00f6z\u00fcmle uyumluydu, hangisi sadece bir \u00f6z\u00fcrd\u00fc?\u201d<\/em> Bu mini i\u00e7 muhasebe, motivasyon ko\u00e7lu\u011fu prati\u011finde son derece etkili bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k egzersizidir. Cevaplar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bir deftere yaz\u0131n. Savunmaya ge\u00e7meden, kendinizi yarg\u0131lamadan ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e\u2026 Bir s\u00fcre sonra \u015funu fark edeceksiniz: \u00d6z\u00fcr dedi\u011finiz \u015feylerin \u00e7o\u011fu, y\u00fczle\u015fmekten ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z potansiyelinizdir.<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte o potansiyel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olduk\u00e7a, mazeretler zay\u0131flar.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki uzun s\u00fcredir ba\u015flamak istedi\u011finiz bir projeyi erteliyorsunuz. \u201cZaman\u0131m yok\u201d, \u201c\u015eartlar uygun de\u011fil\u201d diyorsunuz. Oysa \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcze bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, asl\u0131nda ele\u015ftirilmekten korktu\u011funuzu fark ediyorsunuz. \u0130\u015fte o an d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek sebebi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde, ona g\u00f6re ad\u0131m atabilirsiniz. Belki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir taslak haz\u0131rlars\u0131n\u0131z, belki g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz birine dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. B\u00f6ylece \u00f6z\u00fcr \u00fcretmek yerine \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczden g\u00fc\u00e7 al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ve sonunda \u015funu anlars\u0131n\u0131z: Kendi hakikatinizle temas etti\u011finizde, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n direksiyonuna ge\u00e7ersiniz.<\/strong><\/em> Motivasyon, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan itilen bir g\u00fc\u00e7 de\u011fil; i\u00e7eriden do\u011fan bir bilin\u00e7 halidir.<\/p>\n

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Hac\u0131 Bekt\u00e2\u015f-\u0131 Vel\u00ee Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Hac\u0131 Bekt\u00e2\u015f-\u0131 Vel\u00ee, Anadolu\u2019da tasavvuf d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri olarak kabul edilen bir \u0130slam \u00e2limi ve mutasavv\u0131ft\u0131r. Sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, birlik ve insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131mas\u0131 \u00fczerine kurulu \u00f6\u011fretileriyle geni\u015f kitleleri etkilemi\u015ftir. Onun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinde insan, \u201ckamil insan\u201d olma yolculu\u011funda \u00f6nce kendini bilmeli, nefsini tan\u0131mal\u0131 ve i\u00e7sel ar\u0131nma s\u00fcrecinden ge\u00e7melidir. Anadolu irfan gelene\u011finin temel ta\u015flar\u0131ndan biri olan Hac\u0131 Bekt\u00e2\u015f-\u0131 Vel\u00ee, bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, motivasyon ve i\u00e7sel fark\u0131ndal\u0131k alanlar\u0131nda ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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