{"id":18311,"date":"2015-11-04T17:30:24","date_gmt":"2015-11-04T14:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=14578"},"modified":"2026-02-27T21:37:00","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T21:37:00","slug":"en-kotu-zamanlarimda-beni-idare-etmezsen-en-iyi-zamanlarimda-yanimda-olmayi-hak-etmezsin-marilyn-monroe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/en-kotu-zamanlarimda-beni-idare-etmezsen-en-iyi-zamanlarimda-yanimda-olmayi-hak-etmezsin-marilyn-monroe.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve to be by my side at my best.\u201d Marilyn Monroe"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve to be by my side at my best.\u201d Marilyn Monroe<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cEn k\u00f6t\u00fc zamanlar\u0131mda beni idare etmezsen, en iyi zamanlar\u0131mda yan\u0131mda olmay\u0131 hak etmezsin.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Marilyn Monroe<\/span><\/span>, ili\u015fkilerde ko\u015fulsuz kabul\u00fcn \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7eker. Hepimizin parlak, enerjik ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu zamanlar vard\u0131r; bir de k\u0131r\u0131lgan, karars\u0131z ve zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6nemler\u2026 As\u0131l ba\u011f, iyi g\u00fcnlerde de\u011fil; zor g\u00fcnlerde test edilir. Ger\u00e7ek sadakat, konforlu anlarda de\u011fil; kriz anlar\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olur.<\/strong> Bu s\u00f6z, sevginin ve dostlu\u011fun sadece ba\u015far\u0131ya, stat\u00fcye ya da keyifli anlara ba\u011fl\u0131 olmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise bu, hem do\u011fru insanlar\u0131 se\u00e7mek hem de do\u011fru insan olmak meselesidir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7en birine bilin\u00e7li destek verin. B\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler \u00fcretmek zorunda de\u011filsiniz; bazen sadece dinlemek yeterlidir. \u0130li\u015fkiler, zor zamanlarda yap\u0131lan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama samimi temaslarla g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/strong> Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde, kendi zor zamanlar\u0131n\u0131zda da her \u015feyi tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine g\u00fcvenilir insanlara alan a\u00e7\u0131n. Bu, zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; duygusal olgunluktur.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki kariyerinizde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z ya da ki\u015fisel bir krizden ge\u00e7iyorsunuz. O s\u00fcre\u00e7te yan\u0131n\u0131zda kalan insanlar, ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z g\u00fcnlerde yan\u0131n\u0131zda belirenlerden \u00e7ok daha de\u011ferlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar sizi yaln\u0131zca \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla de\u011fil, g\u00f6lgenizle de kabul etmi\u015ftir. \u0130yi g\u00fcn dostlu\u011fu kolayd\u0131r; karakter ise k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnlerde kalmay\u0131 se\u00e7enlerle yaz\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Marilyn Monroe<\/span><\/span>\u2019nun bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ili\u015fkilerde sadakat, \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve duygusal dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k \u00fczerine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir hat\u0131rlatmad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Marilyn Monroe Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Marilyn Monroe<\/span><\/span> (1926-1962) Amerikal\u0131 oyuncu, model ve pop\u00fcler k\u00fclt\u00fcr ikonudur. 1950\u2019li y\u0131llarda Hollywood\u2019un en tan\u0131nan y\u00fczlerinden biri olmu\u015f; \u201cSome Like It Hot\u201d gibi filmlerle b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131 elde etmi\u015ftir. G\u00fczelli\u011fi ve cazibesiyle an\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, karma\u015f\u0131k i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131 ve k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla da dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. Sinema tarihinin en ikonik fig\u00fcrlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n