{"id":17939,"date":"2015-09-09T13:40:08","date_gmt":"2015-09-09T10:40:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=13647"},"modified":"2026-05-07T07:24:42","modified_gmt":"2026-05-07T07:24:42","slug":"guzel-insanlar-oylece-ortaya-cikmazlar-onlar-olusurlar-elisabeth-kubler-ross-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/guzel-insanlar-oylece-ortaya-cikmazlar-onlar-olusurlar-elisabeth-kubler-ross-2.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBeautiful people don't just show up; they are formed.\u201d Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBeautiful people don't just show up; they are formed.\u201d Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen \u201cG\u00fczel insanlar \u00f6ylece ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmazlar; onlar olu\u015furlar.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n karakterinin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 deneyimlerle \u015fekillendi\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekten derin, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve olgun insanlar; \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7erek, k\u0131r\u0131larak, sabrederek ve yeniden aya\u011fa kalkarak olu\u015furlar. Kimse bir sabah m\u00fckemmel bir ruh h\u00e2liyle uyanmaz. Empati, merhamet, anlay\u0131\u015f ve i\u00e7sel g\u00fc\u00e7; ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n i\u00e7inden s\u00fcz\u00fclerek geli\u015fir. \u0130nsan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fczelle\u015ftiren \u015fey d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc de\u011fil; ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklara ra\u011fmen kalbini karartmamay\u0131 ba\u015farabilmesidir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar ac\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a sertle\u015fir, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise daha derin ve daha \u015fefkatli hale gelir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zor deneyimlere sadece \u201cNeden benim ba\u015f\u0131ma geldi?\u201d diye bakmak yerine, \u201cBu s\u00fcre\u00e7 beni nas\u0131l bir insana d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcyor?\u201d sorusunu sorun. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel de\u011fi\u015fim, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olaylar\u0131 bir y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm alan\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6\u011fretmenleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en zor d\u00f6nemlerdir.<\/strong> Kendinizi geli\u015ftirmeye bu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z bile sizi daha bilin\u00e7li, daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 bir insan haline getirebilir.<\/p>\n

Bunu bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: B\u00fcy\u00fck bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z ve uzun s\u00fcre bunun etkisinden \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131n\u0131z. Ama zamanla fark ettiniz ki art\u0131k insanlar\u0131 daha iyi anl\u0131yor, daha sab\u0131rl\u0131 davran\u0131yor ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feylerin de\u011ferini daha fazla hissediyorsunuz. \u0130\u015fte Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross\u2019un s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bunu anlat\u0131r. Hayat\u0131n sert r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar\u0131 baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r, baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 ise derinle\u015ftirir.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: Ger\u00e7ek g\u00fczellik, kusursuz olmaktan de\u011fil; ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feye ra\u011fmen insan kalabilmekten do\u011far.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross (1926-2004) \u0130svi\u00e7re as\u0131ll\u0131 Amerikal\u0131 psikiyatrist, yazar ve akademisyendir. \u00d6zellikle \u00f6l\u00fcm, yas ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u201c\u00d6l\u00fcm ve \u00d6lmek \u00dczerine\u201d adl\u0131 kitab\u0131yla psikoloji d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck etki yaratm\u0131\u015f, insanlar\u0131n duygusal d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini anlamaya y\u00f6nelik \u00f6nemli katk\u0131lar sunmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n