{"id":17683,"date":"2015-11-14T20:46:54","date_gmt":"2015-11-14T20:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=17683"},"modified":"2026-03-06T05:34:07","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T05:34:07","slug":"gecmiste-kalmis-bir-aptalligi-ara-sira-hatirlamak-aci-verici-olsa-da-faydasiz-degildir-jane-austen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/gecmiste-kalmis-bir-aptalligi-ara-sira-hatirlamak-aci-verici-olsa-da-faydasiz-degildir-jane-austen.html","title":{"rendered":"“Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalm\u0131\u015f bir aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara s\u0131ra hat\u0131rlamak ac\u0131 verici olsa da faydas\u0131z de\u011fildir.” Jane Austen"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalm\u0131\u015f bir aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara s\u0131ra hat\u0131rlamak ac\u0131 verici olsa da faydas\u0131z de\u011fildir.” Jane Austen<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cGe\u00e7mi\u015fte kalm\u0131\u015f bir aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara s\u0131ra hat\u0131rlamak ac\u0131 verici olsa da faydas\u0131z de\u011fildir.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015f hatalar\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkiye dair olduk\u00e7a ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir bak\u0131\u015f sunar. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn sahibi olan Jane Austen<\/span><\/span>, burada insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hepimiz zaman zaman yanl\u0131\u015f kararlar verir, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden hareket eder ya da sonradan pi\u015fman olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunuruz. Bu an\u0131lar\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman utan\u00e7 verici ya da rahats\u0131z edici olabilir. Ancak ge\u00e7mi\u015fte yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalar, do\u011fru bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6\u011frenme kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> \u0130nsan, hatalar\u0131n\u0131 unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ayn\u0131 tuzaklara yeniden d\u00fc\u015febilir; fakat onlar\u0131 bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda olgunla\u015f\u0131r ve daha bilge kararlar almaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama etkili bir pratik vard\u0131r: \u201cHata defteri\u201d y\u00f6ntemi.<\/strong> Ara s\u0131ra ge\u00e7mi\u015fte sizi utand\u0131ran ya da pi\u015fmanl\u0131k yaratan bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131n ve kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu olay bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?\u201d \u00d6rne\u011fin aceleyle verdi\u011finiz bir karar, yanl\u0131\u015f g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz bir insan ya da kontrol edemedi\u011finiz bir \u00f6fke an\u0131\u2026 Bunlar\u0131 yarg\u0131lamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, anlamak i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Hatalar\u0131 birer ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim verisi gibi g\u00f6rmek<\/strong>, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc hafifletir ve ayn\u0131 hatay\u0131 tekrar etme ihtimalimizi azalt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duygusu, bizi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7eken bir y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p bir rehbere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunun bir\u00e7ok \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir ki\u015fi y\u0131llar \u00f6nce yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yat\u0131r\u0131m hatas\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131p bug\u00fcn daha temkinli kararlar alabilir. Ba\u015fka biri gen\u00e7li\u011finde k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir dostlu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, art\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinde daha dikkatli ve daha empatik davranmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. \u0130\u015fte Jane Austen<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc tam da burada yatar: Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki hatalar\u0131m\u0131z, do\u011fru okundu\u011funda gelece\u011fin \u00f6\u011fretmenine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/strong> Ac\u0131 veren an\u0131lar bazen bizi rahats\u0131z eder ama ayn\u0131 zamanda olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan ge\u00e7mi\u015fte yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir aptall\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e hat\u0131rlayabildi\u011finde, gelecekte daha ak\u0131ll\u0131ca davranma g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc de kazan\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Jane Austen Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Jane Austen<\/span><\/span> (1775-1817) \u0130ngiliz romanc\u0131 ve d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan biridir. \u00d6zellikle 18. ve 19. y\u00fczy\u0131l \u0130ngiltere\u2019sindeki sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131, insan ili\u015fkilerini ve bireylerin karakter geli\u015fimini incelikli bir g\u00f6zlem g\u00fcc\u00fcyle anlatmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Pride and Prejudice (A\u015fk ve Gurur)<\/em>, Sense and Sensibility (A\u015fk ve Mant\u0131k)<\/em> . Emma<\/em> gibi eserleri, hem romantik hem de ele\u015ftirel anlat\u0131m\u0131yla klasikle\u015fmi\u015ftir. Jane Austen\u2019\u0131n romanlar\u0131, insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, hatalar\u0131, olgunla\u015fmay\u0131 ve duygusal zek\u00e2y\u0131 ustal\u0131kla ele ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 geni\u015f bir okur kitlesi taraf\u0131ndan ilgiyle okunmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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