{"id":17189,"date":"2016-02-20T14:55:23","date_gmt":"2016-02-20T12:55:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=17189"},"modified":"2026-07-03T09:48:52","modified_gmt":"2026-07-03T09:48:52","slug":"ne-oldugun-o-kadar-yuksek-sesle-haykiriyor-ki-senin-ne-dedigini-duyamiyorum-ralph-w-emerson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ne-oldugun-o-kadar-yuksek-sesle-haykiriyor-ki-senin-ne-dedigini-duyamiyorum-ralph-w-emerson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhat you are screams so loudly that I cannot hear what you are saying.\u201d Ralph W. Emerson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhat you are screams so loudly that I cannot hear what you are saying.\u201d Ralph W. Emerson<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

“Ne oldu\u011fun o kadar y\u00fcksek sesle hayk\u0131r\u0131yor ki, senin ne dedi\u011fini duyam\u0131yorum.”<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Ralph W. Emerson<\/strong>, insanlar\u0131n bizi en \u00e7ok s\u00f6zlerimizle de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. G\u00fczel c\u00fcmleler kurmak, do\u011fru de\u011ferlerden bahsetmek ya da etkileyici konu\u015fmalar yapmak tek ba\u015f\u0131na g\u00fcven olu\u015fturmaz. As\u0131l etkiyi yaratan, s\u00f6ylediklerimiz ile yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z aras\u0131ndaki uyumdur.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karakter, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck se\u00e7imlerinde kendini g\u00f6sterir. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, sayg\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k ve sorumluluk gibi de\u011ferler anlat\u0131larak de\u011fil, ya\u015fanarak g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr h\u00e2le gelir. Bu nedenle davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kelimelerimizden \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir mesaj ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri, g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sormakt\u0131r: “Bug\u00fcn davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m, savundu\u011fum de\u011ferleri ger\u00e7ekten yans\u0131tt\u0131 m\u0131?”<\/strong> Bu k\u0131sa \u00f6z de\u011ferlendirme, s\u00f6zlerimiz ile eylemlerimiz aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 fark etmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. \u00d6rne\u011fin dakikli\u011fe \u00f6nem verdi\u011fimizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsak zaman\u0131nda gelmeye, sayg\u0131y\u0131 savunuyorsak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 dikkatle dinlemeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeliyiz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama tutarl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir karakterin ve g\u00fcvenilir bir ki\u015fili\u011fin en \u00f6nemli g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir y\u00f6netici, ekibinden d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ve disiplin bekledi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyebilir. Ancak kendisi verdi\u011fi s\u00f6zleri tutmuyor, hatalar\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmiyor ve kurallar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsa, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar onun konu\u015fmalar\u0131na de\u011fil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na inanacakt\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 durum ailede, arkada\u015fl\u0131kta ve i\u015f hayat\u0131nda da ge\u00e7erlidir. Ralph W. Emerson’un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize, insanlar\u0131n kulaklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u00f6zlerimize de\u011fil, g\u00f6zlerinin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcven ve sayg\u0131nl\u0131k, s\u00f6ylediklerimizi ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imimize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde kazan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\n
\n<\/div>\n

Ralph W. Emerson Kimdir?<\/h2>\n

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882) Amerikal\u0131 filozof, yazar, \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Transandantalizm (A\u015fk\u0131nc\u0131l\u0131k) ak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri olan Emerson, bireyin i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini ve do\u011fayla kurdu\u011fu ba\u011f\u0131 eserlerinin merkezine yerle\u015ftirmi\u015ftir. \u00d6z g\u00fcven, karakter, \u00f6zg\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirler, yaln\u0131zca kendi d\u00f6nemini de\u011fil, sonraki ku\u015faklar\u0131 da derinden etkilemi\u015ftir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de eserleri, liderlik, motivasyon ve ya\u015fam felsefesi alanlar\u0131nda ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

\n

\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n