{"id":15426,"date":"2015-12-13T16:54:33","date_gmt":"2015-12-13T14:54:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=15426"},"modified":"2026-07-30T08:45:27","modified_gmt":"2026-07-30T08:45:27","slug":"cogu-kez-korktugumuz-seylerde-arzu-ettiklerimizden-daha-az-tehlike-vardir-john-c-collins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/cogu-kez-korktugumuz-seylerde-arzu-ettiklerimizden-daha-az-tehlike-vardir-john-c-collins.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOften there is less danger in what we fear than in what we desire.\u201d John. C. Collins"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cOften there is less danger in what we fear than in what we desire.\u201d John. C. Collins<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Korkular\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7eklerden \u00e7ok hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz taraf\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcl\u00fcr. John C. Collins<\/strong>‘in \u201c\u00c7o\u011fu kez korktu\u011fumuz \u015feylerde, arzu ettiklerimizden daha az tehlike vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, bizi bu yan\u0131lsamay\u0131 fark etmeye davet eder. Yeni bir i\u015fe ba\u015flamak, bir topluluk \u00f6n\u00fcnde konu\u015fmak, hata yapma ihtimaliyle y\u00fczle\u015fmek ya da \u00f6nemli bir karar almak bize \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc gelebilir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, \u00e7ok arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z baz\u0131 \u015feyler; a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 konfor, kontrols\u00fcz h\u0131rs ya da k\u0131sa vadeli hazlar, uzun vadede sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck riskler ta\u015f\u0131yabilir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u015fekillendiren en b\u00fcy\u00fck engel \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7ek tehlikeler de\u011fil, b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz korkulard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in korktu\u011funuz bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize \u015fu iki soruyu sorun: “Ger\u00e7ekten olabilecek en k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015fey nedir?”<\/strong> . “Bunun ger\u00e7ekle\u015fme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne kadar y\u00fcksek?”<\/strong> Bu k\u0131sa de\u011ferlendirme, duygular\u0131n\u0131z ile ger\u00e7ekleri birbirinden ay\u0131rman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Ard\u0131ndan korktu\u011funuz konuda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama somut bir ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Cesaret, korkunun yoklu\u011fu de\u011fil; korkuya ra\u011fmen bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde harekete ge\u00e7ebilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin yeni bir i\u015f ba\u015fvurusunda bulunmaktan \u00e7ekiniyor olabilirsiniz. Akl\u0131n\u0131z size ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, ger\u00e7ekte kaybedece\u011finiz \u015fey yaln\u0131zca bir ba\u015fvuru f\u0131rsat\u0131 olabilir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k hi\u00e7 denememek, belki de hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek bir f\u0131rsat\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rman\u0131za neden olacakt\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 durum yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmek, bir giri\u015fime ba\u015flamak ya da duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade etmek i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman bizi geride tutan \u015fey ger\u00e7ek tehlikeler de\u011fil, zihnimizin b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc korkulard\u0131r; oysa cesaretle at\u0131lan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m, y\u0131llarca ta\u015f\u0131nan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir pi\u015fmanl\u0131ktan \u00e7ok daha de\u011ferlidir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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John C. Collins Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

John C. Collins, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ya\u015fam \u00fczerine s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f \u00f6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zlerde ad\u0131 ge\u00e7en yazarlardan biridir. Ancak ya\u015fam\u0131, mesle\u011fi ve biyografisi hakk\u0131nda g\u00fcvenilir tarihsel kaynaklarda do\u011frulanm\u0131\u015f ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 bilgiler bulunmamaktad\u0131r. Bu nedenle do\u011fum ve \u00f6l\u00fcm tarihleri kesin olarak bilinmemektedir. Buna ra\u011fmen cesaret, korku ve insan\u0131n potansiyeli \u00fczerine kendisine atfedilen s\u00f6zler, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a payla\u015f\u0131lmakta ve insanlar\u0131 korkular\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamaya, daha bilin\u00e7li kararlar almaya te\u015fvik etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Cesaret \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n