{"id":14771,"date":"2015-11-15T19:48:23","date_gmt":"2015-11-15T17:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=14771"},"modified":"2026-08-24T12:58:04","modified_gmt":"2026-08-24T12:58:04","slug":"hayattaki-onceliklerimizi-belirlersek-bunlarin-disinda-kalanlara-gulumseyerek-hayir-demek-daha-da-kolaylasir-stephen-covey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayattaki-onceliklerimizi-belirlersek-bunlarin-disinda-kalanlara-gulumseyerek-hayir-demek-daha-da-kolaylasir-stephen-covey.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf we set our priorities in life, it becomes easier to smile and say no to those who are out of them.\u201d Stephen Covey"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf we set our priorities in life, it becomes easier to smile and say no to those who are out of them.\u201d Stephen Covey<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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Stephen Covey\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve enerjimizi ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan \u015feylere ay\u0131rabilmenin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ya\u015fam becerisi oldu\u011funu<\/strong> anlat\u0131r. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda ayn\u0131 anda ilgilenmemiz gereken pek \u00e7ok \u015fey olabilir; i\u015f, aile, arkada\u015flar, sorumluluklar, hedefler, sosyal \u00e7evre ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bizden beklentileri\u2026 Hepsine yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olanlara yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramay\u0131z. Oysa \u00f6nceliklerimizi netle\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde, her iste\u011fe \u201cevet\u201d demek zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark ederiz. Hay\u0131r demek bencillik de\u011fil, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve de\u011ferlerimizi koruman\u0131n bir yoludur.<\/strong> \u00dcstelik neyi neden reddetti\u011fimizi bildi\u011fimizde, bunu su\u00e7luluk duymadan ve kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini k\u0131rmadan yapabilmek \u00e7ok daha kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Her sabah o g\u00fcn mutlaka zaman ay\u0131rmak istedi\u011finiz \u00fc\u00e7 \u00f6nceli\u011fi belirleyin ve g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde gelen yeni talepleri bu \u00fc\u00e7 \u00f6nceli\u011fe g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirin.<\/strong> Birisi sizden yeni bir i\u015f istedi\u011finde veya plan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek bir teklif sundu\u011funda hemen \u201cevet\u201d demek yerine kendinize \u201cBu, bug\u00fcn benim i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan \u00fc\u00e7 \u015feyden birine katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor mu?\u201d diye sorun. Cevab\u0131n\u0131z hay\u0131rsa, \u201c\u015eu anda buna zaman ay\u0131ram\u0131yorum.\u201d demekten \u00e7ekinmeyin. B\u00f6ylece g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n acil g\u00f6r\u00fcnen taleplerine g\u00f6re de\u011fil, kendi de\u011ferlerinize ve ya\u015fam \u00f6nceliklerinize g\u00f6re<\/strong> \u015fekillendirmeye ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin ak\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ailenizle ge\u00e7irmek, \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6nemli bir projeyi tamamlamak ve dinlenmek sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikliyse, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n son dakika davetine kat\u0131lmaman\u0131z ili\u015fkinizi de\u011fersiz g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz anlam\u0131na gelmez. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde i\u015f yerinde her g\u00f6revi \u00fcstlenmemek de sorumluluktan ka\u00e7mak de\u011fildir. Bazen \u201cBug\u00fcn bunu yapamayaca\u011f\u0131m, ba\u015fka bir zaman memnuniyetle ilgilenirim.\u201d diyebilmek hem kendimize hem de ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 daha d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki her \u015feye yer a\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemli olanlara yer kalmayabilir.<\/strong> Neye \u201cevet\u201d diyece\u011fimizi ger\u00e7ekten biliyorsak, neye \u201chay\u0131r\u201d diyece\u011fimizi de daha huzurlu, daha net ve hatta g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek se\u00e7ebiliriz.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Stephen Covey Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Stephen R. Covey (1932-2012) Amerikal\u0131 e\u011fitimci, yazar, dan\u0131\u015fman ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim uzman\u0131d\u0131r. 24 Ekim 1932’de Salt Lake City, Utah’ta do\u011fan Covey, \u00f6zellikle ki\u015fisel liderlik, zaman y\u00f6netimi, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar ve etkili ya\u015fam konular\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. En \u00f6nemli eseri Etkili \u0130nsanlar\u0131n 7 Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/em> (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People<\/em>), insanlar\u0131n ki\u015fisel ve profesyonel ya\u015famlar\u0131nda daha bilin\u00e7li, ilkeli ve etkili hareket etmelerine y\u00f6nelik yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda milyonlarca okuyucuya ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Covey, \u00f6zellikle \u201c\u00f6nemli olan\u201d ile \u201cacil olan\u201d aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 vurgulayarak insanlar\u0131n zamanlar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zca acil i\u015flere de\u011fil, uzun vadede de\u011fer yaratan \u00f6nceliklere ay\u0131rmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini savunmu\u015ftur. 16 Temmuz 2012’de Idaho Falls, Idaho’da hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden Stephen Covey, modern ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve liderlik literat\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn en etkili isimlerinden biri olarak kabul edilmektedir.<\/p>\n

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