{"id":13953,"date":"2021-06-13T06:00:15","date_gmt":"2021-06-13T06:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=1353"},"modified":"2026-03-03T10:25:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T10:25:35","slug":"sen-istedikten-sonra-karga-da-sana-ugur-getirir-epiktetos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sen-istedikten-sonra-karga-da-sana-ugur-getirir-epiktetos.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAfter you ask for it, the crow brings you good luck.\u201d Epictetus"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA crow brings you good luck after you ask for it.\u201d Epictetus<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u201cSen istedikten sonra karga da sana u\u011fur getirir.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Epictetus<\/strong>, insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131 \u015fekillendirmedeki g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc vurgular. D\u0131\u015far\u0131daki olaylar, nesneler veya insanlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, kendi de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z ve tutumumuz kadar anlaml\u0131 de\u011fildir. Bir duruma, bir olaya veya bir varl\u0131\u011fa \u015fans veya u\u011fur atfetmek, asl\u0131nda bizim onu nas\u0131l alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla ilgilidir. Epiktetos\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fun ve \u015fans\u0131n \u00f6nce zihinle ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r:<\/strong> Siz olumlu bir niyet ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131kla bakarsan\u0131z, en s\u0131radan \u015fey bile ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za de\u011fer katabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cPozitif niyetle ba\u015flamak.\u201d<\/strong> Her sabah kendinize k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir niyet belirleyin: bug\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olaylarda iyiyi g\u00f6rmek, insanlara g\u00fcvenle yakla\u015fmak veya beklenmedik f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 fark etmek gibi. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, s\u0131radan bir olay\u0131 bile olumlu bir deneyime d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Alg\u0131n\u0131z, ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi bi\u00e7imlendirir; bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde, hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u201ckargalar\u201d bile u\u011fur getirmeye ba\u015flar.<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck niyetler, g\u00fcn boyunca fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r ve sizi daha aktif bir ya\u015fam kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 h\u00e2line getirir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda bunu \u015f\u00f6yle \u00f6rneklendirebiliriz: \u0130\u015fe giderken trafikte s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ya da beklenmedik bir aksilik ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, durumu bir felaket olarak de\u011fil, sab\u0131r ve \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rmek fark yarat\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde, bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z size s\u0131radan bir jest yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile, siz ona de\u011fer ve \u015fans atfederseniz g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz pozitif bir \u015fekilde \u015fekillenir. Hayat\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck s\u00fcrprizleri, onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/strong> Epiktetos\u2019un dedi\u011fi gibi, siz istemeden hi\u00e7bir karga u\u011fur getiremez; bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z, \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirler.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Epiktetos Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Epiktetos (M.\u00d6. 50 \u2013 M.S. 135) Antik Yunan Stoac\u0131 filozofudur. Do\u011fu\u015ftan k\u00f6le olarak d\u00fcnyaya gelmi\u015f, ancak entelekt\u00fcel ve ahlaki disipliniyle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Felsefesi, insan\u0131n kontrol edebilece\u011fi ve edemeyece\u011fi \u015feyleri ay\u0131rt etmesi ve zihinsel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00f6nceliklendirmesi \u00fczerine kuruludur. Epiktetos\u2019un \u00f6\u011fretileri, \u00f6zellikle zihinsel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k, erdemli ya\u015fam ve i\u00e7sel huzur konular\u0131nda rehberlik sunar ve Stoac\u0131l\u0131k felsefesinin temel ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n

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\u201cThe only thing holding you back from wanting is your story about why you can't have it.\u201d Anthony Robbins<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n