{"id":1394,"date":"2014-10-15T14:38:07","date_gmt":"2014-10-15T11:38:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=1394"},"modified":"2026-02-03T16:25:05","modified_gmt":"2026-02-03T16:25:05","slug":"ben-cocukken-annem-bana-hep-hayatin-anahtarinin-mutluluk-oldugunu-anlatirdi-okula-gitmeye-basladigim-zaman-sinavda-bana-buyuyunce-ne-olmak-istiyorsun-diye-sordular-ben-de-onlara-mutlu-olma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ben-cocukken-annem-bana-hep-hayatin-anahtarinin-mutluluk-oldugunu-anlatirdi-okula-gitmeye-basladigim-zaman-sinavda-bana-buyuyunce-ne-olmak-istiyorsun-diye-sordular-ben-de-onlara-mutlu-olma.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen I was a kid, my mother always told me that the key to life is happiness. When I started going to school, I was asked 'What do you want to be when you grow up?' they asked. I replied to them, 'I want to be happy'. They told me that I did not understand the question. And I told them they didn't understand life." John Lennon"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen I was a kid, my mother always told me that the key to life is happiness. When I started going to school, I was asked 'What do you want to be when you grow up?' they asked. I replied to them, 'I want to be happy'. They told me that I did not understand the question. And I told them they didn't understand life." John Lennon<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"John<\/a><\/p>\n

John Lennon\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayat\u0131n anlam\u0131na dair al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k ba\u015far\u0131 tan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6kten sorgular. \u00c7ocukken bize \u00f6\u011fretilen safl\u0131kla verilen \u201cmutlu olmak istiyorum<\/strong>\u201d cevab\u0131, asl\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcne dair son derece derin bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k i\u00e7erir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e \u201cne olmak istiyorsun?\u201d sorusu; meslek, stat\u00fc ve unvanlarla doldurulur, mutluluk ise sanki sonu\u00e7ta kendili\u011finden gelecek bir yan \u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f gibi \u00f6telenir<\/strong>. Lennon\u2019un itiraz\u0131 tam da buradad\u0131r: Hayat\u0131 yaln\u0131zca hedefler ve roller \u00fczerinden tan\u0131mlamak, ya\u015fam\u0131n kendisini \u0131skalamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kendinize haftada bir kez \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu hafta beni ger\u00e7ekten mutlu eden ne yapt\u0131m?\u201d<\/strong> B\u00fcy\u00fck cevaplar aramay\u0131n. Bazen bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f, bazen sevdi\u011finiz bir insanla edilen k\u0131sa bir sohbet, bazen de kendinize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z on dakikal\u0131k sessizliktir o an. Mutlulu\u011fu ertelemek yerine, onu bilin\u00e7li olarak g\u00fcndeminize almak; ya\u015famla ili\u015fkinizi daha sahici ve dengeli hale getirir.<\/p>\n

Bir\u00e7ok insan do\u011fru mesle\u011fi, do\u011fru zaman\u0131 ya da do\u011fru ko\u015fullar\u0131 beklerken, hayat sessizce ak\u0131p gider. Oysa John Lennon\u2019un hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi mesele \u201cbir g\u00fcn mutlu olmak\u201d de\u011fil, hayat\u0131 mutluluk merkezli okumay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmektir<\/strong>. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten anlayanlar, ne olduklar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok nas\u0131l hissettiklerine dikkat edenlerdir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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John Lennon Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

John Lennon, d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc m\u00fczik grubu The Beatles<\/strong>\u2019\u0131n kurucular\u0131ndan biri olan \u0130ngiliz m\u00fczisyen, s\u00f6z yazar\u0131 ve aktivisttir. Sanat ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca yaln\u0131zca m\u00fczikle de\u011fil; bar\u0131\u015f, sevgi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve insani de\u011ferler<\/strong> \u00fczerine s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6zlerle de derin izler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. John Lennon\u2019un ya\u015fam felsefesi, ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 d\u0131\u015fsal kazan\u0131mlardan \u00e7ok i\u00e7sel tatmin ve mutluluk<\/strong> \u00fczerinden de\u011ferlendirmesiyle \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar. Onun s\u00f6zleri bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2, hayat\u0131n ne oldu\u011funu yeniden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir davet niteli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Mutluluk \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n