{"id":13923,"date":"2014-10-14T23:04:11","date_gmt":"2014-10-14T20:04:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=1284"},"modified":"2026-03-01T10:53:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-01T10:53:35","slug":"bir-mutluluk-kapisi-kapandiginda-digeri-acilir-ancak-biz-kapanan-kapiya-o-kadar-uzun-bakariz-ki-bizim-icin-acilmis-bulunan-yeni-kapiyi-gormeyiz-helen-keller","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-mutluluk-kapisi-kapandiginda-digeri-acilir-ancak-biz-kapanan-kapiya-o-kadar-uzun-bakariz-ki-bizim-icin-acilmis-bulunan-yeni-kapiyi-gormeyiz-helen-keller.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWhen one door of happiness closes, another opens. But we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the new one that has been opened for us.\u201d Helen Keller"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhen one door of happiness closes, another opens. But we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the new one that has been opened for us.\u201d Helen Keller<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

Helen Keller S\u00f6zleri<\/strong><\/span><\/a>
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\u201cBir mutluluk kap\u0131s\u0131 kapand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda di\u011feri a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Ancak biz kapanan kap\u0131ya o kadar uzun bakar\u0131z ki, bizim i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bulunan yeni kap\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyiz.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Helen Keller<\/span><\/span>, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na tak\u0131l\u0131 kalman\u0131n bizi yeni f\u0131rsatlardan mahrum b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hayatta kay\u0131plar, biti\u015fler ve reddedili\u015fler ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Bir ili\u015fkinin sona ermesi, bir i\u015f f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7mas\u0131 ya da planlar\u0131n bozulmas\u0131\u2026 O an g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz sadece kapanan kap\u0131dad\u0131r. Oysa hayat bo\u015fluk b\u0131rakmaz; bir alan kapan\u0131rken ba\u015fka bir ihtimal do\u011far.<\/strong> Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan mesele, kayb\u0131 ink\u00e2r etmek de\u011fil; bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yeniden y\u00f6nlendirebilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu: Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131n ve hemen alt\u0131na \u015fu soruyu ekleyin: \u201cBu durum bana hangi yeni ihtimali sunuyor olabilir?\u201d \u0130lk anda cevap bulamayabilirsiniz; bu normaldir. Ancak zihni bu soruya maruz b\u0131rakmak, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi tetikler. Odak nereye giderse enerji oraya akar.<\/strong> Kapanan kap\u0131ya bakmay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, a\u00e7\u0131lan kap\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rme ihtimaliniz artar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin istedi\u011finiz bir i\u015fe kabul edilmediniz. Bu durum moralinizi bozabilir; fakat belki de o s\u00fcre\u00e7te edindi\u011finiz deneyim sizi daha uygun bir pozisyona ta\u015f\u0131yacakt\u0131r. Ya da biten bir ili\u015fki, sizi kendinizle daha derin bir ba\u011f kurmaya y\u00f6neltebilir. O an bunu g\u00f6rmek zor olabilir; fakat zamanla tablo netle\u015fir. Hayat\u0131n sundu\u011fu yeni kap\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmek i\u00e7in, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ge\u00e7mi\u015ften \u00e7ekmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmeliyiz.<\/strong><\/em> Helen Keller<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc; umut, dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k ve yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar konusunda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir motivasyon \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n