{"id":13784,"date":"2014-10-13T02:52:44","date_gmt":"2014-10-12T23:52:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=909"},"modified":"2026-01-15T12:39:44","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T12:39:44","slug":"bircok-kez-bir-dokunusun-bir-gulumsemenin-bir-kelimenin-dinleyen-bir-kulagin-icten-soylenmis-guzel-bir-sozun-ya-da-deger-veren-en-ufak-bir-davranisin-gucunu-kucumseriz-bunlarin-hepsinin-hayati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bircok-kez-bir-dokunusun-bir-gulumsemenin-bir-kelimenin-dinleyen-bir-kulagin-icten-soylenmis-guzel-bir-sozun-ya-da-deger-veren-en-ufak-bir-davranisin-gucunu-kucumseriz-bunlarin-hepsinin-hayati.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cToo often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a word, a listening ear, a kind word, or the smallest act of caring. All of these have the potential to change our lives.\u201d Leo Buscaglia"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cToo often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a word, a listening ear, a kind word, or the smallest act of caring. All of these have the potential to change our lives.\u201d Leo Buscaglia<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Leo Buscaglia\u2019n\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ama insan olman\u0131n kalbinde duran bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015feyler her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck kararlar, k\u00f6kl\u00fc d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmler ya da dramatik anlar de\u011fildir.<\/strong> Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck<\/em>, hatta \u00f6nemsiz<\/em> sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar, bir insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda derin bir yank\u0131 uyand\u0131r\u0131r. Bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme, \u201cburaday\u0131m\u201d diyen bir bak\u0131\u015f, yarg\u0131lamadan dinleyen bir kulak\u2026 Bunlar \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclemez ama etkilidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman m\u00fckemmel \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlerden \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fclmeye, duyulmaya ve de\u011ferli hissetmeye<\/strong> ihtiya\u00e7 duyar. Bizler bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck temaslar\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsedik\u00e7e, asl\u0131nda kendi etki alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltm\u00fc\u015f oluruz.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri payla\u015fal\u0131m: Her g\u00fcn en az bir ki\u015fiye \u201cbilin\u00e7li bir temas\u201d sunun.<\/strong> Bu, aceleyle s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f bir \u201cmerhaba\u201d de\u011fil; ger\u00e7ekten orada oldu\u011funuzu hissettiren bir temas olsun. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za t\u00fcm dikkatinizle kulak vermek, bir i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za i\u00e7ten bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek ya da hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine samimi bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme b\u0131rakmak gibi\u2026 \u00d6nemli olan b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de\u011fil, niyeti.<\/em> Biz bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getirdi\u011fimizde, fark\u0131nda olmadan \u00e7evremizde daha g\u00fcvenli, daha insani ve daha canl\u0131 bir ba\u011f alan\u0131 olu\u015ftururuz.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; zor bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ortas\u0131nda, tek bir c\u00fcmlenin sizi aya\u011fa kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlar olmu\u015ftur. Belki biri size \u201cBunu fark ettim ve takdir ediyorum\u201d dedi, belki de sadece sessizce yan\u0131n\u0131zda durdu. \u0130\u015fte Buscaglia\u2019n\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7 tam olarak budur. Bizler ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktas\u0131 olmak zorunda de\u011filiz; bazen bir virajda yol \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmak yeterlidir.<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her i\u00e7ten davran\u0131\u015f, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir anlama d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, bu dokunu\u015flar yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini de\u011fil, bizi de<\/em> daha canl\u0131, daha ba\u011fl\u0131 ve daha insan yapar.<\/p>\n

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