{"id":13774,"date":"2014-10-12T22:29:58","date_gmt":"2014-10-12T19:29:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=598"},"modified":"2026-01-15T12:43:23","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T12:43:23","slug":"bazilari-yasami-bos-bir-hayal-olarak-gorur-cunku-icine-hicbir-sey-koymazlar-pat-mesiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bazilari-yasami-bos-bir-hayal-olarak-gorur-cunku-icine-hicbir-sey-koymazlar-pat-mesiti.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cSome see life as a vain dream; because they don't put anything in it." Pat Mesiti"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cSome see life as a vain dream; because they don't put anything in it." Pat Mesiti<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Pat Mesiti\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ya\u015famdan \u015fik\u00e2yet eden pek \u00e7ok insan\u0131n g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 temel bir noktaya i\u015faret eder: Hayat, i\u00e7ine ne koyarsak onu yans\u0131tan bir alan gibidir.<\/strong> Bo\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda anlams\u0131z, donuk ve tats\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr; ama emek, niyet ve anlamla beslendi\u011finde derinle\u015fir. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131 \u201cbo\u015f bir hayal\u201d olarak tan\u0131mlar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayattan beklerken, ona bir \u015fey katmay\u0131 erteler. Oysa ya\u015fam, uzaktan izlenecek bir sahne de\u011fil; i\u00e7ine girilmesi, dokunulmas\u0131 ve doldurulmas\u0131 gereken bir deneyimdir<\/em>. Bizler sorumluluk almadan, de\u011fer \u00fcretmeden ve anlam eklemeden ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fey ger\u00e7ekten de bo\u015fluk olabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri sunal\u0131m: Her g\u00fcn ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za bilin\u00e7li olarak \u201ck\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir anlam par\u00e7as\u0131\u201d ekleyin.<\/strong> Bu, b\u00fcy\u00fck hedefler ya da radikal kararlar olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Bir deftere iki sat\u0131r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yazmak, uzun zamand\u0131r erteledi\u011finiz birine i\u00e7ten bir mesaj g\u00f6ndermek ya da sizi besleyen bir konuya on dakika ay\u0131rmak yeterlidir. \u00d6nemli olan miktar de\u011fil, s\u00fcrekliliktir.<\/em> Biz bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama kas\u0131tl\u0131 katk\u0131lar\u0131 yapt\u0131k\u00e7a, ya\u015fam\u0131n bo\u015f de\u011fil; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k veren, b\u00fcy\u00fcyen ve \u015fekillenen bir alan oldu\u011funu fark ederiz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin g\u00fcnleri birbirine benzeyen biri, \u201cHayat \u00e7ok anlams\u0131z\u201d dedi\u011finde \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sorun hayat\u0131n kendisi de\u011fildir. Sorun, o g\u00fcnlerin i\u00e7ine hi\u00e7bir iz b\u0131rak\u0131lmamas\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>. Oysa ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi, haftada bir g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc bir i\u015fe zaman ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bir konuyu \u00f6\u011frenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya da sadece kendisiyle d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir sohbet kurdu\u011funda, ya\u015fam\u0131n tonu de\u011fi\u015fir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7ine anlam koyduk\u00e7a, ya\u015fam da bize anlam sunar. Hayat bo\u015f bir hayal de\u011fildir; bo\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/strong> Ve bu bo\u015flu\u011fu doldurabilecek en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kaynak, yine bizim bilin\u00e7li varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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D\u00fc\u015fler ve Hayallere Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n