{"id":13759,"date":"2014-10-12T19:05:11","date_gmt":"2014-10-12T16:05:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=508"},"modified":"2026-01-23T17:38:35","modified_gmt":"2026-01-23T17:38:35","slug":"sikayet-ettiginiz-yasam-belki-de-bir-baskasinin-hayalidir-tolstoy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sikayet-ettiginiz-yasam-belki-de-bir-baskasinin-hayalidir-tolstoy.html","title":{"rendered":"“\u015eikayet etti\u011finiz ya\u015fam, belki de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayalidir.” Lev Tolstoy"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u015eikayet etti\u011finiz ya\u015fam, belki de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayalidir.” Lev Tolstoy<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Lev Tolstoy\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc insan\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na dair yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 derin bir hat\u0131rlatmad\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcmle bize, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, eksik sand\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 merkeze ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6sterir. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n ko\u015fturmacas\u0131 i\u00e7inde sa\u011fl\u0131k, g\u00fcvenlik, sevdiklerimiz, bir ev, bir i\u015f gibi temel de\u011ferleri h\u0131zla s\u0131radanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r; ard\u0131ndan da ya\u015famdan yak\u0131nmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z. Oysa mutluluk<\/strong>, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong> . \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr<\/strong> \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ko\u015fullardan de\u011fil, onlara nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan beslenir. Tolstoy\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u015fik\u00e2yetin bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, fark etmenin ise bilin\u00e7li bir se\u00e7im oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla uygulanabilecek basit ama etkili bir pratik \u015fudur: Her g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u201cBug\u00fcn \u015fik\u00e2yet etti\u011fim ama asl\u0131nda sahip oldu\u011fum ne vard\u0131?\u201d sorusunu sorun ve en az \u00fc\u00e7 maddeyi<\/strong> yaz\u0131n. B\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler olmak zorunda de\u011fil; bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapabilmek, bir dostla konu\u015fmak, sessiz bir an bile yeterlidir. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck egzersiz, zihnin oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131 eksikten olana de\u011fil, var olana<\/strong> \u00e7evirir. D\u00fczenli yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u015fik\u00e2yet dili zay\u0131flar, ya\u015fam doyumu<\/strong> . i\u00e7sel denge<\/strong> g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; bizim s\u0131radan dedi\u011fimiz bir g\u00fcn, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor bir hayal olabilir. \u015eik\u00e2yet etti\u011fimiz hayat, asl\u0131nda bize emanet edilmi\u015f bir imk\u00e2nlar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc olabilir.<\/strong><\/em> Ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, hayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeden \u00f6nce ona bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em> Bizler ya\u015fam\u0131 s\u00fcrekli d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bazen sadece durup fark etmeye ihtiya\u00e7 duyar\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam kalitesi<\/strong>, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ko\u015fullardan de\u011fil; o ko\u015fullara y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlamdan do\u011far.<\/p>\n

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D\u00fc\u015fler ve Hayallere Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n