{"id":13721,"date":"2014-10-12T02:31:17","date_gmt":"2014-10-11T23:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=326"},"modified":"2026-04-02T18:07:44","modified_gmt":"2026-04-02T18:07:44","slug":"mutlu-olmak-icin-icinde-bulundugunuz-andan-daha-iyi-bir-zaman-oldugunu-dusunmekten-vazgecin-mutluluk-bir-varis-degil-bir-yolculuktur-pek-coklari-mutlulugu-insandan-daha-yuksekte-arar-bazilari-da","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/mutlu-olmak-icin-icinde-bulundugunuz-andan-daha-iyi-bir-zaman-oldugunu-dusunmekten-vazgecin-mutluluk-bir-varis-degil-bir-yolculuktur-pek-coklari-mutlulugu-insandan-daha-yuksekte-arar-bazilari-da.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cStop thinking that there is a better time to be happy than right now. Happiness is not a destination, it is a journey. Many seek happiness higher than people, some lower\u2026 However, happiness is at the level of a person's height.\u201d Confucius"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cStop thinking that there is a better time to be happy than right now. Happiness is not a destination, it is a journey. Many seek happiness higher than people, some lower\u2026 However, happiness is at the level of a person's height.\u201d Confucius<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cMutlu olmak i\u00e7in i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011funuz andan daha iyi bir zaman oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten vazge\u00e7in. Mutluluk bir var\u0131\u015f de\u011fil, bir yolculuktur. Pek \u00e7oklar\u0131 mutlulu\u011fu insandan daha y\u00fcksekte arar, baz\u0131lar\u0131 da daha al\u00e7akta… Oysa mutluluk insan\u0131n boyu hizas\u0131ndad\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00c7inli filozof Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs\u2019\u00fcn insan\u0131n mutluluk aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na dair zamans\u0131z bir rehberidir. \u0130nsan zihni \u00e7o\u011fu zaman mutlulu\u011fu gelecekteki bir ba\u015far\u0131ya, ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki bir ana ya da ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor ideal ko\u015fullara ba\u011flar. Oysa Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Mutluluk, ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir hedef de\u011fil; ya\u015fanmas\u0131 gereken bir deneyimdir. Mutlulu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli ertelemek, asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131 ertelemektir.<\/strong> \u0130nsan bazen mutlulu\u011fu kendinden \u00fcst\u00fcn hedeflerde, bazen de kendini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek basit ka\u00e7\u0131\u015flarda arar; fakat ger\u00e7ek mutluluk, tam da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an\u0131n i\u00e7inde ve kendi ya\u015fam ritmimizle uyum kurdu\u011fumuz noktada bulunur.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u201c\u00fc\u00e7 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck mutluluk\u201d al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 geli\u015ftirin. Her ak\u015fam o g\u00fcn sizi iyi hissettiren \u00fc\u00e7 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck an\u0131 yaz\u0131n; bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme, k\u0131sa bir sohbet, tamamlanan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir g\u00f6rev ya da hissedilen bir huzur an\u0131 olabilir. Mutlulu\u011fu fark etmek, onu b\u00fcy\u00fctmenin en etkili yoludur.<\/strong> Bizler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131 beklerken g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n sundu\u011fu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama ger\u00e7ek mutluluklar\u0131 g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Bu basit uygulama, zihnimizi eksiklere de\u011fil var olan de\u011ferlere odaklamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretir ve motivasyon duygusunu do\u011fal bi\u00e7imde g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6zlemleyebiliriz: Yeni bir i\u015fe kavu\u015ftu\u011funda mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biri k\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra yeni beklentilerle tekrar huzursuz olabilir; ancak y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f s\u0131ras\u0131nda g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc fark eden, sevdi\u011fi insanlarla ge\u00e7irilen an\u0131n k\u0131ymetini bilen ki\u015fi mutlulu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli ertelemek zorunda kalmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mutluluk \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerde de\u011fil, fark edilen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlarda sakl\u0131d\u0131r. Mutluluk ula\u015f\u0131lacak bir zirve de\u011fil; her ad\u0131mda bizimle y\u00fcr\u00fcyen bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k h\u00e2lidir.<\/em><\/strong> Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs\u2019\u00fcn bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon yolculu\u011funda mutlulu\u011fun d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullardan \u00e7ok i\u00e7sel bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla \u015fekillendi\u011fini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bi\u00e7imde hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Who is Confucius?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs (M\u00d6 551-M\u00d6 479) \u00c7inli filozof, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve e\u011fitimcidir. Do\u011fu felsefesinin en etkili isimlerinden biri kabul edilen Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs, ahlak, erdem, toplumsal d\u00fczen ve insan ili\u015fkileri \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretilerle y\u00fczy\u0131llar boyunca \u00c7in k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ve d\u00fcnya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarihini etkilemi\u015ftir. \u00d6\u011fretileri bireysel geli\u015fim, bilgelik, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fck ve insan\u0131n kendini s\u00fcrekli geli\u015ftirmesi fikri \u00fczerine kuruludur.<\/p>\n

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Be Happy Now \u2013 Tips for True Happiness<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n