{"id":13653,"date":"2014-10-11T20:06:25","date_gmt":"2014-10-11T17:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=141"},"modified":"2026-03-04T06:49:00","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T06:49:00","slug":"soz-var-daga-cikarir-soz-var-dagdan-indirir-soz-var-is-bitirir-soz-var-bas-yitirir-turk-atasozu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/soz-var-daga-cikarir-soz-var-dagdan-indirir-soz-var-is-bitirir-soz-var-bas-yitirir-turk-atasozu.html","title":{"rendered":"“S\u00f6z var, da\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r; s\u00f6z var, da\u011fdan indirir… S\u00f6z var, i\u015f bitirir; s\u00f6z var, ba\u015f yitirir.” T\u00fcrk Atas\u00f6z\u00fc"},"content":{"rendered":"

“S\u00f6z var, da\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r; s\u00f6z var, da\u011fdan indirir… S\u00f6z var, i\u015f bitirir; s\u00f6z var, ba\u015f yitirir.” T\u00fcrk Atas\u00f6z\u00fc<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cS\u00f6z var, da\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r; s\u00f6z var, da\u011fdan indirir\u2026 S\u00f6z var, i\u015f bitirir; s\u00f6z var, ba\u015f yitirir.\u201d<\/strong> \u015feklinde ifade edilen bu Turkish Proverb<\/strong>, s\u00f6z\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc ve sorumlulu\u011funu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde ortaya koyar. Bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kelimeler sadece d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi de\u011fil, ili\u015fkilerimizi, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve kaderimizi de \u015fekillendirir.<\/strong> Ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmle bir insan\u0131 aya\u011fa kald\u0131rabilirken, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 yerle bir edebilir. S\u00f6z; do\u011fru yerde, do\u011fru niyetle ve do\u011fru tonda kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da\u011flar\u0131 a\u015fan bir g\u00fc\u00e7 olur. Ama \u00f6fkeyle, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesizlikle ya da kibirle s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde telafisi zor sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furabilir. Siz ve biz i\u00e7in burada kritik olan \u015fey, ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz kadar, nas\u0131l ve ne zaman s\u00f6yledi\u011fimizdir<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: Konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu s\u00f6z\u00fcm ba\u011f kuracak m\u0131, yoksa ba\u011f m\u0131 koparacak?\u201d<\/strong> \u00d6zellikle duygular\u0131n y\u00fckseldi\u011fi anlarda, birka\u00e7 saniyelik duraklama b\u00fcy\u00fck fark yarat\u0131r. Bu k\u0131sa fark\u0131ndal\u0131k an\u0131, sizi pi\u015fmanl\u0131k yaratacak bir c\u00fcmleden al\u0131koyabilir ya da tam tersine, do\u011fru bir s\u00f6zle bir i\u015fi kolayla\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir. Unutmayal\u0131m; s\u00f6z, niyetle birle\u015fti\u011finde etkisini katlar<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunun say\u0131s\u0131z \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir \u00f6\u011fretmenin \u00f6\u011frencisine s\u00f6yledi\u011fi tek bir c\u00fcmle, onun t\u00fcm hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Bir y\u00f6neticinin kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 birka\u00e7 kelime, ekibin motivasyonunu ya y\u00fckseltir ya da bitirir. Bir aile i\u00e7i konu\u015fma, y\u0131llarca s\u00fcrecek bir yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa da, uzun bir k\u00fcsk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011fe de kap\u0131 aralayabilir. Bu y\u00fczden s\u00f6z, sadece a\u011f\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan bir ses de\u011fil; bilin\u00e7le ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 gereken g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir emanettir.<\/em><\/strong> Do\u011fru s\u00f6zle da\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131z, yanl\u0131\u015f s\u00f6zle ise kendi da\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan d\u00fc\u015feriz.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n