{"id":13252,"date":"2015-08-22T17:04:29","date_gmt":"2015-08-22T14:04:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=13252"},"modified":"2026-05-11T19:15:42","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T19:15:42","slug":"ne-basarirsaniz-basarin-size-yardim-eden-biri-mutlaka-vardir-althea-gibson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ne-basarirsaniz-basarin-size-yardim-eden-biri-mutlaka-vardir-althea-gibson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo matter what you achieve, there is always someone to help you.\u201d Althea Gibson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo matter what you achieve, there is always someone to help you.\u201d Althea Gibson<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cNe ba\u015far\u0131rsan\u0131z ba\u015far\u0131n, size yard\u0131m eden biri mutlaka vard\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n sand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha fazla ba\u011f i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayan bir varl\u0131k oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Althea Gibson<\/span><\/span> bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltm\u00fcyor; aksine onun ger\u00e7ek yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015far\u0131 hik\u00e2yeleri yaln\u0131zca sahnedeki ki\u015fiye odaklan\u0131r. Oysa g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen tarafta destek veren bir \u00f6\u011fretmen, cesaret veren bir dost, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yapan bir aile \u00fcyesi ya da do\u011fru zamanda uzanan bir el vard\u0131r. \u0130nsan tek ba\u015f\u0131na g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilir; ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman birlikte b\u00fcy\u00fcr, birlikte aya\u011fa kalkar ve birlikte ilerler. Ba\u015far\u0131 sadece bireysel yetene\u011fin de\u011fil, insan ili\u015fkilerinin de \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong> Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi fark etmek ise hem daha al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc hem de daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir insan olmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz etkili bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bug\u00fcn sizi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte desteklemi\u015f bir ki\u015fiye k\u0131sa bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr mesaj\u0131 g\u00f6nderin. Bu eski bir \u00f6\u011fretmeniniz, size inanan bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ya da zor bir d\u00f6nemde yan\u0131n\u0131zda olmu\u015f bir aile bireyi olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yapt\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck iyiliklerin ba\u015fka birinin hayat\u0131nda nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fck izler b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmezler. \u00dcstelik te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi de\u011fil, bizi de d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Zihnimizi eksiklere de\u011fil, sahip oldu\u011fumuz deste\u011fe y\u00f6neltir. Minnettarl\u0131k, insan\u0131n hem ili\u015fkilerini hem de i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendiren g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir enerji gibidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayatta ger\u00e7ekten ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmu\u015f insanlara dikkat etti\u011fimizde bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir sporcu kupay\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na kald\u0131r\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr; ama arkas\u0131nda onu yeti\u015ftiren antren\u00f6rler, ailesi ve destek\u00e7ileri vard\u0131r. Bir yazar kitab\u0131n\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na yazabilir; fakat ona ilham veren insanlar, onu ayakta tutan dostluklar ve cesaret veren deneyimler o yolculu\u011fun par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Hatta bazen sadece do\u011fru zamanda s\u00f6ylenen tek bir c\u00fcmle bile insan\u0131n hayat y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam, sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar bireysel bir m\u00fccadele de\u011fildir. \u0130nsan bazen kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcyle ilerler; ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n deste\u011fiyle yolunu bulur. Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131, bunu unutmadan y\u00fckselebilmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Althea Gibson<\/span><\/span> Kimdir?<\/h2>\n

Althea Gibson<\/span><\/span> (1927-2003) Amerikal\u0131 tenis\u00e7i ve profesyonel golf oyuncusudur. Spor tarihinde \u0131rk ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015farak b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131 elde eden ilk siyahi kad\u0131n sporculardan biri olarak kabul edilir. 1950\u2019li y\u0131llarda tenis d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bariyerleri y\u0131kan Gibson, Wimbledon Championships<\/span><\/span> . US Open<\/span><\/span> turnuvalar\u0131nda \u015fampiyonluk kazanarak tarihe ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Sadece sportif ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131yla de\u011fil, cesareti, azmi ve toplumsal \u00f6nyarg\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 verdi\u011fi m\u00fccadeleyle de ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmu\u015ftur. Althea Gibson\u2019\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131, f\u0131rsat verildi\u011finde insan\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 a\u015fabilece\u011finin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc \u00f6rneklerinden biri olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n