{"id":13187,"date":"2015-08-17T18:07:04","date_gmt":"2015-08-17T15:07:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=13187"},"modified":"2026-05-11T19:37:20","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T19:37:20","slug":"bir-bahceye-giremezsen-durup-seyran-eyleme-bir-gonul-yapamazsan-yikip-viran-eyleme-yunus-emre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-bahceye-giremezsen-durup-seyran-eyleme-bir-gonul-yapamazsan-yikip-viran-eyleme-yunus-emre.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you can't get into a garden, don't stop and watch. If you can't make a heart, don't destroy it." Yunus Emre"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you can't get into a garden, don't stop and watch. If you can't make a heart, don't destroy it." Yunus Emre<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

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\u201cBir bah\u00e7eye giremezsen durup seyran eyleme. Bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl yapamazsan y\u0131k\u0131p viran eyleme.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerinin en hassas ve en de\u011ferli y\u00f6nlerinden birine dokunur. Yunus Emre<\/span><\/span> bu s\u00f6z\u00fcnde yaln\u0131zca nezaketi de\u011fil, insan\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya nas\u0131l bir iz b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na g\u00fczellik katamayabiliriz, her yaray\u0131 saramayabiliriz ya da herkese yard\u0131m edecek g\u00fcc\u00fc bulamayabiliriz. Ancak en az\u0131ndan k\u0131rmamak, incitmemek ve zarar vermemek bizim elimizdedir. T\u0131pk\u0131 bir bah\u00e7eye giremiyorsak d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan ta\u015f atmamak gerekti\u011fi gibi, bir g\u00f6nl\u00fc onaram\u0131yorsak onu y\u0131kacak s\u00f6zlerden de ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u0130nsan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek olgunlu\u011fu, sadece iyilik yapabilmesinde de\u011fil; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten uzak durabilmesinde de sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir tart\u0131\u015fma ya da k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k an\u0131nda cevap vermeden \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu s\u00f6z kar\u015f\u0131mdaki insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc yapacak m\u0131, yoksa y\u0131kacak m\u0131?\u201d \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6fkeyle s\u00f6ylenen baz\u0131 c\u00fcmleler birka\u00e7 saniyede \u00e7\u0131kar; ama etkisi y\u0131llarca s\u00fcrebilir. \u0130nsan bazen hakl\u0131 olmak isterken ili\u015fkilerini kaybeder. Oysa empati kurabilmek, susulmas\u0131 gereken yerde susabilmek ve k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmamay\u0131 se\u00e7mek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir i\u00e7sel g\u00fc\u00e7 g\u00f6stergesidir. Baz\u0131 insanlar konu\u015farak b\u00fcy\u00fcr, baz\u0131 insanlar ise k\u0131rmadan davranabildi\u011fi i\u00e7in de\u011fer kazan\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunu s\u0131k s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir \u00f6\u011fretmenin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici tek bir s\u00f6z\u00fc, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini y\u0131llarca etkileyebilir. Ya da tam tersine, zor zaman\u0131nda s\u00f6ylenen s\u0131cak bir c\u00fcmle insan\u0131n yeniden aya\u011fa kalkmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6n\u00fcl dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezdir; ama en derin izleri orada ta\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. \u0130nsan bazen bir bak\u0131\u015fla bile kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini incitebilir ya da iyile\u015ftirebilir. Bu y\u00fczden ya\u015fam sadece ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla de\u011fil, insanlarda ne hissettirdi\u011fimizle de ilgilidir. Her insan bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl ta\u015f\u0131r. E\u011fer o g\u00f6nl\u00fc g\u00fczelle\u015ftiremiyorsak, en az\u0131ndan onu k\u0131rmadan ge\u00e7meyi \u00f6\u011frenmeliyiz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Yunus Emre<\/span><\/span> Kimdir?<\/h2>\n

Yunus Emre<\/span><\/span> (1238-1328) T\u00fcrk halk \u015fairi ve tasavvuf d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Anadolu\u2019da T\u00fcrk\u00e7e \u015fiirin en \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri kabul edilen Yunus Emre, eserlerinde sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, insanl\u0131k, tevazu ve ilahi a\u015fk temalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u015flemi\u015ftir. Sade ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r dili sayesinde halk\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yer edinmi\u015f, y\u00fczy\u0131llar boyunca etkisini koruyan dizeler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tasavvuf anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 insan sevgisiyle birle\u015ftiren Yunus Emre\u2019nin \u015fiirleri, bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 hem edebi hem de manevi a\u00e7\u0131dan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir kaynak olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n