If you can't solve the problem, it's because you're playing by the rules.
If you don't have the grades or money to go to college, take classes. If you want that job even though you weren't accepted, lie on your doorstep. Go to all the classes, do the errands, get a job. People get to know you. Eventually they will accept you; because you are part of that group. Not only will they respect you for your determination, they will love you for it. It will take time, maybe a year; but you will be inside, not outside.
If it can't be done, do it. If you don't, it can't exist.
If you can't solve the problem, it's because you're playing by the rules.
